But my mums being funny with me, she wont talk 2 me and when she does shes being nasty. is this normal behaviour
i'm the eldest
2007-01-24 22:01:01 · 8 answers · asked by EeyoreLuvzMe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
you may be the oldest but your still her first baby, give it time it will pass
2007-01-24 22:06:43 · answer #1 · answered by passion_fruitx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not sure, I've just a bought a house 25 miles away from where I live now (I live 10 mins away from my mum at the moment), she's not speaking to me either!
With my mum, I think she's worried on what effect my moving will have on her( it won't affect her at all, I will still go and visit her, she never comes to see me now and I live 10 mins away!), rather than how good it will be for me and my family.
Stick with it, you are very fortunate to have got yourself on the property ladder when so many are struggling. Your mum should be proud of you, and i'm sure she will be when she gets used to the idea of you leaving.
Good Luck.
2007-01-24 22:09:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that should be normal behaviour! I would have thought she'd have been very proud of you - is she jealous? Or you moving away from her and leaving her on her own or something - if this is the case mayb you should invite her round a good bit = it may just be that shee thinkis she'll be forgotten about and be a bit lonely or something
Congrats on the house by the way!
xx
2007-01-25 00:59:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may be that she is thinking of where she was at your age now. you could be getting things, like your new home, that she wanted at that time in her life and never got. she may feel a little jealous. you are putting your life together and, maybe, she feels she never had the chance. i think it's a great thing you did, by buying your first home, good luck with it and be happy. don't let your mom ruin something on you that is soooo important to you. while her behavior is not normal - their are a lot of parents, without even realizing, sometimes, that they are, in fact, jealous of their own children. it's a shame because they are the ones who raised us to be independent and when we achieve this independence they can't take it. i hope she comes around and is happy for you, but, if she can't, you just enjoy the world you are creating for yourself.
2007-01-25 00:01:49 · answer #4 · answered by try 2 help 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be jealousy, sad to say.
I purchased my first home last year and it's a beautiful home. I'm young , single, no children and I've been blessed with a wonderful job. Certain family members were acting really rude and I realized that it was just jealousy. Talk to your mom to see what the problem is.
2007-01-24 22:26:02 · answer #5 · answered by TINY822 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really no, but it may just be that she's not comfortable with the idea of her eldest child leaving the safety of her nest. Talk to her and tell her that you need to learn to stand on your own two feet and responsibility yourself.
2007-01-25 00:47:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happened to me to hun you just have to put up and shut up, that is what i did, she will eventually speak to you again, i think it is change!!!!! Good Luck xx
2007-01-25 02:21:45 · answer #7 · answered by Very Sexy Vixen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it maybe she thinks you won,t need her as much
2007-01-24 22:08:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋