I get introduced with this guy, which is 1 year younger than me, he protects me alot, from a strangers phone call i always receive, till the strangers on the street. and he tolds my friend that he likes me, but he dont dare to get closer to me, since he says m too hot, and he just dreaming to get me.
but he was wrong, I like him too, but m just keep quite, waiting him to make the 1st move. even though he didnt make any move, Im starting to msg him to chill or out for a party.
but the day after that he says to my friend that, he thinks we're better off just be friend, coz one day may be if we're get together, and we broke up, we wont be a friend anymore. and he just wishing a fool moon to fall in to a hot chick, which is too high from him.. so he better off.
i was so shock.
he was wrong. I like him too, he is just so sweet.
but he really ignore me now, and not even call me or looking for me at all...
whats wrong with this guy?
2007-01-24 21:56:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is little afraid of handling hotties.
give him some fun so that he comes out openly.
2007-01-24 22:11:05 · answer #1 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with him. He's just - and justly - scared of his own attraction to you.
If you talk to a girl you have a crush on and you blush or say something stupid or all of a sudden can't think of anything, you'll never forgive yourself and often can never try again. Many women are extremely judgmental of guys and want them to perform at the level of a 40 year old playboy whose bedded hundreds of girls.
Learn to make him comfortable (and sexy) and take the initiative. Show him that you're a friend and not just a performance jury. Encourage him like you would a little girl whose afraid to ride the bike or play with the dog.
That's a good thing to learn anyway, since you'll often get too many things too easily if you're a pretty girl.
Don't just be pretty. Be smart, courageous and compassionate. It'll be all yours, girl... Go for it!
2007-01-24 22:25:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're a teenager. Well, get used to it. love and relationships are just complicated and confusing like that sometimes. what you should do is try to back off of him for a while and not try to contact him. you gave him enough signs and you should allow him more time to think about it and miss you. if he likes you, he will make a move. just keep on being yourself and try to act like nothing is wrong, if you know what i mean. and remember- you can't always get what you want. but good luck anyway....bye
2007-01-24 22:18:21 · answer #3 · answered by luckystrike_x007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋