my girlfriend is pregnant and has been chased away,she is in my house what should i do?
2007-01-24 21:55:53 · 12 answers · asked by moe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
take care of her and your unborn child....make sure she goes to the doctor and eats right....love her...you are about to be a dad...good luck
2007-01-24 22:02:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Sounds like you are very young and still living with your parents. First of all calm down. Take some deep breaths and relax for a few minutes so you can think as rationally as possible. Tell your parents no matter how scared you are...yes, you messed up hun...we all do and you'll work things out I'm sure. I'm sure your parents love you very much and no matter how upset they are they will help you figure it all out. They're older and wiser and you need them now so figure out what you're gonna say and just do it. I would be very disappointed and sad for my son but I would hug him and tell him it's ok and that I love him. And I would do whatever was necessary to help him and his gf get thru this.
2007-01-25 06:14:36 · answer #2 · answered by bama_babe07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is her age? What is your age?
I am gathering she was kicked out of her house?
If you are both underage... I hope you are in an understanding country. Hopefully your parents are in a position to be able to help and are also understanding!
You will obviously 'please explain' what went wrong!!!?
Hopefully the condom broke or her pill just stopped working... if it was unsafe sex... you have learnt your lesson.
Last but not least... you have to be there for her! As it has been stated... it took two to tango, now it will take two to work hard at taking responsibility, helping in whatever way you both can, for the best of the baby! And being thankfull for whatever help comes your way!
If you are in no position of being able to raise the baby, one of the options I was considering when I had a pregnancy scare was telling my parents about it, obviously, telling them I'd find and will find 'parents' (who are looking for a baby) for the baby as soon as possible before the birth, having the baby and handing him/her over to the 'parents'. There are other options as well, I pray your parents will stand by your decision and I hope that your decision will be a mature, well thought out one.
Also, listen to your parents, they may/should have good advice/ideas to help you... If you show them and tell them that you are willing to and want to take responsibility for your actions!
All the best sweetie!
Hugz and strength to you both!
2007-01-25 06:17:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were man enough to play now be man enough to calm down and think.if g/f is going to have this baby then it took both of you to make it,if you do not care enough about her to share your life with her like that help her find a place to stay[other family etc...]you still need to be in your childs life when it is born though as no child deserves to grow up without a father just because he decided to be selfish,the child is innocent.be supportive of the mom even if you are no longer going to have a relationship with her,that will be the best for both of you.good luck
2007-01-25 06:43:09 · answer #4 · answered by angel_ns_texas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You better start getting ready for that child. Its not gona raise itself. You had fun making it now you have to take responsibility for your actions. I think that her family will come around soon enough. Just hang in there. You have a big responsibility now.
2007-01-25 06:06:24 · answer #5 · answered by chanD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless you can be a man and be a responsible bf-husband to her and a father to the unborn child, yes you are definitely in trouble.
obviously, you have to work and take care of her and, of course, marry her (even in just a very simple ceremony). it will be hard if you're still not ready to do these things.
2007-01-25 06:26:08 · answer #6 · answered by a_very_curious_person 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Positive feedback, or any feedback at all is impossible with the description of your problem.
Maybe you should give a bit of detail
2007-01-25 06:01:31 · answer #7 · answered by poutanaki4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear!!!!!!! u don`t need to waist time.....as far as ur are responsible for the pregnance.Marry her nd be happy.God will help u.
2007-01-25 06:06:38 · answer #8 · answered by baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take care of her and arrange for your baby to be born.
2007-01-25 06:06:23 · answer #9 · answered by bill a 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should think about this before ur play without a rain coat.
2007-01-25 06:04:05 · answer #10 · answered by 2bros 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋