AM I in love?

Question

I think about this guy all the time, he is perfect in everyway..The thought of him with someone eles all but kills me. I compare all my other bfs to him and none of them compare. He used to like me but now im not so sure..If I cant have him then I cant even have a friend ship with him. How can I tell him how I feel..

Best wishes..
Queen Lindsey

Answer 1

when you are in love, you will know. It isn't something you'll question.

Answer 2

Girl, not sure how old you are but I'm pushing 30 and from my experience, if you are not sure how he feels about you then move on. If a REAL man likes you -you'll know. If you have any sense of him drifting-he is. Move on to someone else. FYI- always play hard to get even if you like the guy. Showing too much interest will only push him away. Why I don't know, but men like a challenge and like a women who has self respect and confidence. Just tell him you are receiving mixed signals and you need to disolve any personal relationship with him-you do it first. It may help the situation, if not he is not intersted and move on. One, you'll probably catch him off guard and he may realize what he is losing- if not who cares!!! There are other fish in the sea. Worry about yourself first and never have your mind fogged by a MALE!!! When you put yourself first everything else will follow. Hope this helps.

Answer 3

I don’t know how long you have been dating. However, you need to ask him at some point how he feels about you. If you are having sex, which I am guessing that is a yes, then you feel close to him in many ways. If he has not communicated his feelings toward you in a deeper way, then he is not ready or may not be seeking a deeper relationship.

Although you may feel strongly toward him, remember it takes two to tango.

Answer 4

just ask, it's not easy but it's the only way to be sure