Why do MEN let go of a GREAT woman, with fantastic qualities, when they don't want anything serious at that moment, and when you move on they want you back??
Anyone ever been in this situation?
2007-01-24 21:53:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys like to chase
2007-01-24 21:57:39 · answer #1 · answered by Diz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because, everybody isn't in the same headspace at the same time. If women would allow a man to conduct himself the way he's comfortable and just let things go along well when they're happy, they'd eventually get what they always wanted. When you push the issue, they get left behind(whether they do the leaving or not) and then they just get more and more bitter; until finally, they are just unbearable and alone. This when they call men 'aging gracefully' and women 'menopausal'...lol
2007-01-25 06:17:30 · answer #2 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The better question is, why do women let go of a great guy? It seems that a woman will break up with me, but constantly call me up to tell me how much they miss me and how much of a great guy I am, but they don't want to date me again. If they see that I'm with another woman though, they try to sabotage my hapiness.
I think it's a two-way street.
2007-01-25 06:00:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
reaction to pain. the problem is women are well aware of the power and control they have over men and when you go through a bad one, regardless of the positive slant of the relationship you become gun shy. trust me on this one, been there done that. my advice to you is dont do what alot of women do...guess and plant hints. the direct communicative and sympathetic approach is best. ive always found a direct route to getting what you want is asking for it and dealing with the problems that ensue together and head on. good luck.
2007-01-25 06:02:33 · answer #4 · answered by koalatcomics 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, at that time he was persuing someone greater than u. then this other one didn't want him so he is trying to catch anything he can - it's like a small bird in hand is worth a heron in the sky
2007-01-25 05:59:53 · answer #5 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
happened to my sis in law lets just say men are idiots at tyms
2007-01-25 05:57:59 · answer #6 · answered by ladyluck 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Controlling you without living with you kills two birds with one stone.
2007-01-25 06:01:59 · answer #7 · answered by huckleberry 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋