Been with my boyfriend for 6 month now and for the past few months of the relationship we have had a few fights, but thats a different story. I tend to see my boyfriend most nights and if were not fighting were out having a good time.
the thing that bothers me is when we first started going out with each other he would never trim himself down below and has never done it full stop, with us not getting along we dont really have sex very much, infact not at all most of the time.
i seen him last night and things were ok and we ended up having sex, what i seen was he had shaved himself down below, and i thought straight away this is strange. i stopped and asked why has he down that, he said i dunno i just done it when i was in the shower, but i kept asking well why? he could not give me an answer, i said you never used to do this and you only done it once months ago when we were having sex because i asked you to do it, and plus you said you did not like to do that.
2007-01-24 21:04:07 · 16 answers · asked by ice_castles 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what gets me is this man does never do this, and he could not give me an answer as to why he done it, its obviously not for my bennifit cos we hardly ever sleep together, are these signs of cheating?
2007-01-24 21:05:51 · update #1
Maybe he remembered you seemed to like that when u did it before and now is trying to show u he cares about your likes and dislikes. Why think so hard that you mess up his honest gesture? No wonder you're not having sex..I wouldn't have a good answer for you either if I did something I thought would make you happy and u made me feel stupid for it...way 2 go!
2007-01-24 21:21:27 · answer #1 · answered by SHAWNPX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont jump to conclusion so fast. Wow you are so fast to judge him...why is that? If you don't trust him then come out and say it, but shving his private parts may have nothing to do with trust. As a guy, I never used to shave down below....but one day I just wanted to try it and I was tired of my pubic hair, and thought a smooth bottom half might be nice. And you know, I just did it one night and it felt good. In fact, no one made me do it and I even went to a mens place and got a full wax job for 8 sessions. Besides the pain, it was great and felt good amde me feel sexy. Anyhow, I think I just wantetd a change and to feel different and it worked for me. Anyhow, I have stopped recently due to cost and time, but might one day do it again. So, what I say is that really does not have to be a reason at all except that he just wanted to feel different as I did. Be happy with his smooth body now before it gorws back and he forgets all about it!
2007-01-24 21:12:26 · answer #2 · answered by immune01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
while he asked you to be his lady chum, grow to be he waiving his palms contained in the air, speaking to himself, looking around as though seeing something? If no longer, you ought to discuss with a minimum of considered one of his kinfolk and locate out approximately his psychological historic past. None everybody is completely general yet your b/f sounds like he's a candidate for schizophrenia and that's amazingly severe. If he has had indications considering age 12, i'm particular his mum and dad are conscious and can have seeked expert help for him
2016-09-27 23:20:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shaving the pubic region increases the sexual urge of the person concerned. Further it is a matter of personal hygience. I am sure u wud not like him to pry into ur personal hygiene practices. If so, why shud u and then feel bad about it.
2007-01-24 21:42:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really a sign of cheating. the fact that you dont have sex often is more of a question why is that? you would need to look for more than just that thing alone to say he was cheating on you. maybe you already do but dont want to see it?
2007-01-24 21:08:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you never know with guys wether this is a sign of cheating or not....he could be but he could also have done it because he misses havin sex with you and thought it could turn you on so your sex life would get back to normal...don't stress it, if he's cheating there will be other signs...they are NEVER as smooth as they think they are
2007-01-24 21:10:11 · answer #6 · answered by Amy Hizzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whew!!!! ummmm........ have you seen any other signs of cheating? i won't give examples as this my give you more suspicions rather than help. couple what you found with what he did and see what you get. trust goes a long way in a relationship. Or are you just being p-noid? think things through before you scream "cheater"!
2007-01-24 21:14:59 · answer #7 · answered by afreeca812 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to 'DeeDee'.....never follow ur instinmt in this kind of situation,...
have a serious conversation with him...about this..insist till u get a valid answer
2007-01-24 21:17:00 · answer #8 · answered by rapstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This alone is nothing. I may do this now and then, month here and month there. There has to be more, because you are over reacting if this is it.
2007-01-24 21:12:26 · answer #9 · answered by American Bad Ass 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm nah i dont think he cheating on u but maybey he feels like he doesnt wanna date u anymore
2007-01-24 21:10:19 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋