I just want to get over this guy that I've fallen for, but it seemse impossible. Help...its killing me- only serious answers please.
2007-01-24 20:16:13 · 23 answers · asked by jemm4president 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
complicated problem- easy to solve- just be yourself and everything will follow! trust me..
2007-01-24 20:44:42 · answer #1 · answered by peH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he know you are crazy about him?
If not, tell him.
Hopefully he won't be like the jerk I was crazy about. Took me a year and a half to get over him. But I finally did, and now I would not spit on him if he was on fire.
Maybe if you tell him he will say that he is crazy about you too, and you can have a happy relationship with him.
If not, look at the positive side. The worst he could say is "No!"
Then what have you lost?.......Nothing
I don't know how old you are, but when I was about 17 yrs old, the biggest fear a lot of girls had (including myself) was rejection.
Now at the age of 32 I have been rejected so many times it ceases to be a worry for me anymore. I have learnt to take the blows and get up and keep going.
You can too!
If this guy doesn't want you, there are plenty more out there that will.
Besides there are more aspects to life than romance. And it is these aspects that help you get over the pain of rejection.
Good luck.
I wish you the very best in whatever you choose to do about your problem.
2007-01-25 04:36:10 · answer #2 · answered by Spikey and Scruffy's Mummy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you asked yourself Why you wan get rid of him?
Perhaps, you'll have to ask yourself why..
Do you have his picture? if yes, return it...
How often do you see him? If everyday get rid of it, by not seeing him for a week or two..
I reackon you think of him every minute, then you'll have to find something to do like,hanging out with friends, reading a novel, by your Best Author... or find the current films to watch, don't even let him coming into anything you do, you know what? Just get busy..
But mind you, it's gon take you time to get over it, but with time the feeling'd go away..
Hope this helps and let me know if it does..
2007-01-25 04:36:56 · answer #3 · answered by codedfeelins 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only time. seriously it seems like its never gona happen and ur never gona get over it but it happens in time. try to think not feel. be rational instead of being emotional. surround urself with girlfriends, take up a productive hobby try to detach urself from thinking about him but no matter what u do it is still gona take time its not gona go away in a day but you have to try to get over him as you wait for it to go away by itself also.good luck!! be strong! be selfish(in a good way) and remember there is someone better.....in the future so help urself let go of the past!
2007-01-25 04:28:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to really concentrate on some activity that you love and you may not believe it now but "out of sight out of mind" works, but not as a short term solution, but as a definite one. Do something you like and focus on it. Oh, and try to picture him in shameful, disgracing situations - you may laugh (laughter is also a good way). You and you alone can do this.
2007-01-25 04:28:02 · answer #5 · answered by Mirela B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I totally hear ya!!!!!! I was there about a year back, and I still kinda obsess a bit....If his # is in your cell erase it, if his e-mail is in your address book delete it, if he is on your messenger delete it, and just get back to doing the stuff you do, its a pain in the *** but it realy helped me! Then go out with some buds and have some fun!!!! Because sitting around and turning your energy into negative energy will only make it worse, so get out and do stuff!!!!!! I promise it works!
2007-01-25 04:26:10 · answer #6 · answered by dwntwnbadboy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I totally understand your predicament, I've been there. I found it helpful to absorb myself in other things to distract myslef, including mixing with other people. It's not an easy situation and there is no easy answer, but it will get easier.
Best wishes, J
2007-01-25 04:21:43 · answer #7 · answered by sirjulian 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well 1st do not fall for lets be friends bull then find things u love doing to get ur mind of him and when u do do it with close friend who are supportive or with family and just tell urself its good it happened now and not later then u will be fine
2007-01-25 04:32:24 · answer #8 · answered by vakere2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, ugh... i think you can over him through making yourself busy with some funfilled activities with your girl friends. you should help yourself! control yourself not to think of him. but the best answer for your problem is to let time pass by... and let cupid strike an arrow on your heart with another guy! just wait... and mind you, it may take long... but don't worry, you'll forget him.
2007-01-25 04:25:39 · answer #9 · answered by CB 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel alone! I'm in the same boat. Sometimes I wish he would do something out of the blue to make me hate him.
He's near perfect and I doubt that's going to happen.
Sigh.....Love hurts!
2007-01-25 04:22:43 · answer #10 · answered by EsteeIsFrench 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all, if yah really want to get over with him, set your body and mind not just keep sayin you want to forget him... keep yourself busy like doin some activities you really like with or without sumone... open your heart and mind to new relationship...
dont just keep lockin yourself alone in your room... that will add depression to your feelings right now... go out with friends... date other guys... im sure you deserve sumone better than him... if he's not meant for you then so be it... its not like its the end of the world... goodluck ^.~
2007-01-25 04:33:20 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋