The first night I slept over at my bf's house, after dating for months, he told me something odd. He said I looked so peaceful in my sleep that he felt it would be a crime to wake me. I asked him how long he was watching me, but he said it was just a glance. It's more than a glance if you are looking and thinking that along with other things. He's also said that I'm like good wine which I don't understand as I have never had a drink in my life. He makes sure I have money even when I don't need it and tell him. He's said he loves me a few times, but not much. He loves my children, that I know for sure. He is concerned about our age difference becuase I'm in my 20's and he's old enough to be my father. Is he serious and what does he mean by this, especially good wine? I am divorced and we met up again after years of being apart while I was still married. He told me "No matter who you marry and if you marry, you will always be mine". Stuff like that. What's up with him?
2007-01-24 18:23:32 · 3 answers · asked by diet7upisgreat4me 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I'm insecure about my body too, but he likes to watch me undress and tells me he loves it. I have a c section scar and am very self conscious about it, but he doens't care. When I lost weight, he told me not to lose too much and grabbed my waist.
2007-01-24 18:27:18 · update #1
Watch your kids!!!!
Have you done a recent background check?
2007-01-24 18:29:59 · answer #1 · answered by lindakflowers 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about the sleep thing. People look good in their sleep because they are relaxed and at peace. If it bothers you just tell him you would prefer if he didn't watch you sleep he will probably respect that if he likes you.
If he tells you you are like good wine - thats a compliment. Dont worry about it.
But - if he tells you that you will still be "His" even if you marry someone else...thats a little troublesome. To me (im a guy) it sounds like he is the jealous type and he really likes you - but it could be trouble if you don't see him as a longterm partner.
enjoy the good times together, thats the most important part!
2007-01-25 02:45:11 · answer #2 · answered by Thuja M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should break up with him and go out with a nice college guy. This dude is WAY out of your age range.
2007-01-25 02:27:56 · answer #3 · answered by Cold Fart 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋