My bf and I have been together about 2 years and we fight, but it's always over petty things. I know he loves me and i love him and immediatly after fights it's like it never happened does anyone have a solution?
2007-01-24 18:22:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The only solution I found was to leave if it's that bad.Lifes to short to ruin it with fighting.
2007-01-24 18:28:19 · answer #1 · answered by Matty G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone in relationships, HEALTHY relationships, disagrees on things every once in a while. If you didn't, that means one or both of you aren't being honest all the time with how you feel. I#m more concerened when I hear couples don't fight than when they say they do.
As long as it isn't a daily occurance, and as you say, right after, things are back as if it never happened...you are perfectly normal.
Now if you find yourselves fighting over the same thing repeatedly... well then that is a subject the two of you need to sit down and talk about at a time when you aren't heated over it, and come to a compromise...even if it is to agree to disagree.
But all in all, petty silly disagreements happen all the time, what is most important is not to read too much intoit, and let it drop once it's over.
2007-01-24 18:33:25 · answer #2 · answered by allrightythen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up...
2007-01-24 18:26:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋