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Question

if you have had sex before you were married, what gives you the right to judge women who have had children out of wedlock? If you had sex as a teen, what gives you the right to judge teen mothers?

So, being responsible is what it's called? Some people actually get pregnant on birth control believe it or not.

Answer 1

Who cares what other people say or think. I have six kids and most of them out of wedlock. What is everyone living in the 1940's. It happens all the time. As long as you take care of the kids. You live your life they way you want not the way they want. More teens are having sex and more people are having children out of wedlock some r even having children married but not with there wives. It is away of life. So no one has a right to judge any one for what they do. Grow up people and mind your own business. If you can't mind your own business you r not responsible to mind someone elses.

Answer 2

are you upset that people judge you for having had children out of wedlock as a teenager? get over it.

Also, having sex before marriage is not the same thing as having children before marriage. Furthermore, having sex as a teen is not the same thing as having children as a teen. You know it's true.

Answer 3

its called the line between being responsible and irresponsible.


update*

ure talking about 2 different things. one thing is having sex when ur a teen or unmarried. another is getting pregnant when ur a teen or unmarried. its not the same thing. u know society looks down on that especially teen pregnancy, and rightfully so. arguable is wedlock because u can do whatever u feel when ure an adult. so if u have a problem with people being judgemental about that type of situation it's ur own responsibility to prevent it. if u personally feel its ok then suck it up and stop complaining. society is not changing in our lifetime. FYI sex doesn't always HAVE to result in pregnancy. it's irresponsible yes to have kids if ur a teenager. teenagers are not adults at that age. its reality. its basically a child having a child. they cant even support themselves financially when they're teenagers. wth makes u think they can support themselves and a child?? thats being irresponsible. how do u expect people to look at teenage parents? as adult equals? how do u expect that? no they look at them and wonder where their parents were.

Answer 4

Nice message to send out. I will save all judgment for my children. I can care less about anyone else. The only question i have: Why do girls and women say things like "I got pregnant"? kind of like catching the flu. Another question, Why have sex unless your ready to have children? Don't they know that's what could happen after sex? all I have to say is- stupid, stupid, stupid.

Answer 5

Sex and pregnancy are two different things. Just because you are able to have sex does not mean you should be having children. It doesn't mean that you are emotionally ready to be a mother, regardless of age or marital status.

Answer 6

I might of had sex when i was a teenager but i had enough sense that sex equals pregnancy and i put myself on birth control. The difference between me and a teenager mother is that i did not have a babie while i was a babie myself.
I am not judging though, it is called an opinion. I am not strongly against people who are not married. You do not have to be married to be happy and have kids together.

Answer 7

I did and I don't judge, just try to help if I can

Answer 8

i dont think that anyone has the right to judge anyone about anything!

Answer 9

don't judge them as long as they take good care of their kids.

Answer 10

I agree