well i have always been sweet to her and you know kind loving always by her side since about 5th grade and now were in like 7th grade. Back then we were like the bestest friends because we were in the same class but now it is like we don't even know each other because we have different classes. well since 7th grade we talk less and less but i want to talk to her and everything but she seems to be busy all the time. and she is very attractive and the most popular girl at school, well me. kinda the other way. ugly and not so well know because i'm in honors and i have the same people in my class. well just awhile i emailed her and i don't even think she replies to my mails. why do you think she doesn't of doesn't like me as much anymore as she did when we were in 5th grade
2007-01-24 17:31:58 · 9 answers · asked by Ledzeppelin324 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey you are in 7th grade kid. Yeah you are probably pissed I called you a "kid", but guess what I can drive a car and drink booze and buy porno and you can't. So listen up now that I broke you down because I am about to build you back up....................
DON'T TAKE THAT SERIOUSLY, you have so much of your life ahead of you. I am 28 and I would love to jump back into the 6th, 7th or 8th grade. I would do everything different. Now don't pine on this girl but if you want girls at your age there is an equation man. Just like your algebra class. You see who is getting them and you need to do what they are doing. Whether its playing football, baseball, working out or whatever, but if its playing world of warcraft drinking mountain dew all day, then if you want a girl that is not making the equation work.
Also you are in the 7th grade, I don't even talk to anybody from the 7th grade anymore, and guess what kid you won't when you're my age you won't talk see or even think of those people anymore. So don't take it seriously, AT ALL!!! The only things you should care about in your life now is school (kind of sets up the rest of your life, huh??? WHAT MY COUNSELOR NEVER TOLD ME THAT SHEEEIT!), and your family. Those are the only two things in your life you can count on. Everything else just have fun.
Brucelee19
So Get on it!
~brucelee19
2007-01-24 17:56:46 · answer #1 · answered by Brian G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People do a lot of growing in different directions and changing when they're growing up, particularly between elementary school and seventh grade. What can actually happen is people change so much they don't know one another after a while.
If she's hanging out with one group of kids, and you're hanging out with a different group, chances are she just feels like both of you have changed.
If she doesn't answer your e.mails don't bother with her. She's not as a good a friend as you thought she was.
For now work on building up your own sense of who you are and gaining more confidence. You're probably not "ugly". Most kids your age think they're ugly when either they're not at all or else they're just awkward. Concentrate on those honors classes you have and get yourself an excellent education. There will be times for girls along the way, but, obviously, this girl is the one you should be spending your time thinking about.
2007-01-24 17:57:43 · answer #2 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's being this way because when you are in school and you go to a new class, you meet new people. And she is probably just hanging out with her new friends more. Maybe she isn't the good friend you thought she was. You should try to find a new friend in your class and forget about this one. If she is not emailing you back, she must not want your friendship to continue. Don't let it upset you too much. It's all a part of growing up. You should look forward to meeting new friends and finding a good one that will want to hang out with you.
2007-01-24 17:49:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're so young. it's just not a time when a girl really wants to committ. she's finding herself, and you need to find yourself too. also, i say this all the time, but even though girls don't admit it, they don't truly like the sweet guy whether they realize it or not. you gotta put your foot down and take charge. don't be rude, don't be a jerk, be nice, but not too nice. it just makes girls think they can walk all over you and take advantage of you. looks mean alot, but personality means more. if she doesn't reply to your e-mails, stop trying to contact her. show her you're just fine without her (even though you don't feel the way right now) she might crawl back to you, but if not, move on. you can do better. hope this helps!
2007-01-24 17:42:57 · answer #4 · answered by aries8422 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's growing up...suddenly popularity is more important than anything else...she might come round later on down the track...but you should just move on...there are plenty of other girls who i'm sure would like to spend time with you.
2007-01-24 17:39:34 · answer #5 · answered by K8tgry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've lost your confidence that is why. Girls like boys that are sure of themselves. Count on your friendship and don't pine for it. People get busy and you should be busy too. Girls don't like someone that is waiting around for them they like to see guys that are in love with life and confident with themselves.
2007-01-24 17:38:31 · answer #6 · answered by frustrated efiler 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a popular girl,so she must be having a lot of friends.Sometime when you ignore someone,they are more attracted to you.Try this,it may work.
2007-01-24 17:38:20 · answer #7 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she could have out grew you
she could have been influenced by the comments of others
she doesnt want to look like she's dating you
she may be really busy
talk to her about it. up front. dont take no for an answer till your satisfied
2007-01-24 18:02:33 · answer #8 · answered by RUIX 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's growing up faster than you are, and right now you're not as interesting. Move on.
2007-01-24 17:46:08 · answer #9 · answered by John D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋