How would you feel if this guy told u he liked you but he had a g/f and you liked him too, but he loved her more, so you waited for him for three months, and then finally lost it, (cried over him) and he asked you out cause he didn't want to lose you as a friend. Asked you out even though he still had feelings for him girlfriend? He told me that he dumped her and then asked me out, but he told my friend that he asked me out before he dumped her. So he cheated on her and on me and lied to me about the whole thing?! Would you be upset, should i dump him? I've been cheated on before and he told my friend not to tell me cause he didn't want me to think he was a cheater, which implys that he admits that he cheated. I'm really hurt, what should I do????
2007-01-24 17:31:03 · 15 answers · asked by Lollipop 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Firstly you went for a guy who had a girl shame on you!!
Secondly you waited for him 4 3months!!!! shame on you twice girl you shouldn't have to wait for anybody...
So he says he didn't wanna lose you so he asked you out!!!!!Shame on you for the third time. Swty if this guy really wanted you he would of had you earlier, he wanted his cake and wanted eat it too, but when he found out that you wern't staying he bolted and asked you out guys like that you don't deserve, Dump him even though you really like him in the long run you are gonna get hurt, if he can cheat on his girlfriend(By liking you and making you wait) then he can chaet on you too.
2007-01-24 17:42:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby girl, there are too many fish in the sea to be crying over this trout. Trust me, move on! I have a friend just like you in the same situation. If you continue this relationship you will always be second best, despite all the lies he will tell you. I bet she knows nothing of you, but you know of her because you are the mistress. Get someone who will make you #1.
2007-01-24 17:39:51 · answer #2 · answered by shorty2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really hope you believe in yourself and dump this loser. He is playing on you both. He has the best of both worlds right now, a girlfriend who he obviously still loves (but cheats on), and then he has you, who has fallen for his crap and lies. Get rid of him honey... he's no good and will only hurt you more.
2007-01-24 18:03:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should realy dump the looser. If he cheats on the gf then he would cheat on you if he finds some one better. There are a lot of really cute guys out there, do not stick to just one. ;)
2007-01-24 17:39:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He took advantage of your feelings for him and cheated on his GF. To me, that's not a very good friend to have in your circle in the first place. You have every right to be angry and feel betrayed. He doesn't deserve your friendship. Some guys get greedy and they tend to love the attention too much. In any case, a real friend wouldn't jeopardize a friendship such as yours.
2007-01-24 17:47:19 · answer #5 · answered by artutina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you've been caught on the rebound. You don't want someone's sloppy left overs. Girl, give it up and go for broke! If he cheated once, he'll do it again and the same way he was talking to you while with the other girl he'll do it again.
2007-01-24 17:35:48 · answer #6 · answered by Jerry S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like trouble. Move on. It was wrong for him to be so close with you while he was dating his girlfriend. It is likely that he will cheat on you in the future. You can't start a "relationship" with lies.
2007-01-24 17:36:35 · answer #7 · answered by ca belle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 00:38:13 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that you move on and find someone you can trust. This fella sounds like he wants to have his cake and eat it too.
You deserve honesty, respect and true affection. Walk away from this guy and move on to a better guy. Anyone who wants to play headgames is not worth the heartache.
2007-01-24 17:35:47 · answer #9 · answered by Tellin' U Da Truth! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not worth it. I personally don't tolerate lying. If he lies about one thing, he's going to lie about other things. Even if it's so "he won't hurt you." People don't realize lying hurts more than the truth.
2007-01-24 17:37:08 · answer #10 · answered by manders030405 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋