I am love with a Girl?

Question

I am a 25 year Guy working as a Executive in Financial Company.I am in Love with my friend and propose her on 2 Jan 2007. She said we are just friend.We are still in ontact with each other through Sms and Call. Normally i Call her. Does she loves me. I am really loving her and want to marry her. Fews days before she told her mom that I had proposed her and asked me why I Love her when she is Very Ziddi. She is now just 19 year and studying in Final year Bsc. Please guide me.

Answer 1

Let her get matured first. Spend as much as time possible with her. Let her understand that you care for her. If she feels that you care for her and her life, success and failure are very much important to you, she will love you. She will not be able to ignore you.

Answer 2

She's still young and even if she does care a great deal about you, or even loves you, she may be scared of commitment and not sure how to react to moving into something like marriage so young.

I don't know her and I don't know anything about the relationship really so I wouldn't know if she loves you or not.

If she said you two are just friends, eventhough it's ALWAYS hard to let go, I'd back away and stick to the friend thing for a while and treat her like a friend and be extra nice and sweet and maybe she'll develop the same feelings you have for her, it just may take time and also give her some time to live and decide if marriage is what she wants so early in life.

I'm sorry things did not work out for you the way you wanted them to, although sorry can't erase the pain. I'm sure things will work out right and if she said "no" they always say everything happens for a reason and maybe it wasn't the right time or someone else is out there for you that will make you feel 100% more in love than she did or maybe she just needs time and love takes time and a ton of work.

I hope everything works out for you!

Answer 3

If you truly love her, you should allow her to finish studies rather than diverting her mind on love and marriage. Once she is through and gets a decent job, you can propose her (after a year or so) when she will be little bit mature enough to respond to your sentiments. I am 58 years old and this is my sincere advise. It is your life and upto you what next you should do as you are educated and can decide for yourself what is best for you.
Good Luck and God Bless.

Answer 4

Give her a break,she's only 19 what do you expect? She's too young for that kind of responsibility.Besides, she has already told you remain to be as friends. If you really love her, wait till she graduate and mature a little bit more.

Answer 5

she's young. and she knows it. has she ever told you that she loves you? if she didnt than why did you propose? she doesnt seem ready. nowadays girls are more career minded and less worried about being married. wait till she seem like she's ready, she'll hint yiou if she did. just go on with your life and try to find interest in other woman if you really want to get marreid that bad

Answer 6

Be patient,Ask here again After a few time(say 3-4 weeks)

Answer 7

I also was in the clutches of a ziddi girl, who kept me on the hook for years. She never said yes, but was close and she told her mom, and all others that I had proposed. Presently, I have kept her on hook, and going on date with girls to search my soul mate.

Answer 8

be patient if she really likes n loves u,she won't go away from u.so u must give her time n wait.of course u still have to contact her constantly 4 maintaining ur friendship.good luck.

besy wishes.

Answer 9

she made it clear... you guys are friends... think about how your friendship would be ruined because 5 years from now she breaks up with you because she only loves you as a friend. Talk to her about how you feel.

Answer 10

I hate to break it to you but it sounds like you are just friends