why can't guys just tell us what they are feeling? i can't read his mind...he gives half of the feelings...angers me.
2007-01-24 17:28:34 · 12 answers · asked by Special K 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him how he feels and if he keeps giving you half answers give him half answers to like if he says "How are you?" say "goo" (as in good) and he will ask "what!?" Say "Well you don't like that do you!...You want whole answers than answer me the propper way because I am not a psychic!!!"
LOL
2007-01-24 17:33:47 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. Q & A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand. There was a letter a few days ago when a guy did express his feelings, She was mortified at his honesty, sincerity, and his true love feelings for her. She dumped him on the grounds she thought he was lying. He wasn't.
I knew a girl once who would bring a manual can opener on dates to get the guys to open up.
Guys need a lot of process time when it comes to feelings and this is problematical. In some cases they are really in the dark about actualizing those feelings. I would like to say to be patient, but I know your impatience. I almost processed myself out of what turned out the be the most torrid love affair of my life.
Prod him with a firm, yet gentle cattle iron. Make sure he knows he will be safe and that he will not have his feelings trampled on,
2007-01-25 01:48:51 · answer #2 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a guy but I have been in a relationship with one for ten years. The best thing that I have learned about men from him is this...men will tell you what is bothering them. We are usually the ones who insist on delving deep into their souls for more. However, as honorable as it is that you REALLY have concern for your man, if he tells you for example, I'm just tired. Most of the time the best thing you can give to help him out would be...a blanket.
2007-01-25 01:35:22 · answer #3 · answered by lustful TR 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are in a solid relationship, both parties will open up completely with each other. if your boyfriend isnt opening up yet, he may not feel completely comfortable doing so. if you are committed to the relationship, give him time, but dont get angry. it is a scientific fact that men do not connect with emotions the same way women do. when he is ready, he will let his guard down.
2007-01-25 01:35:19 · answer #4 · answered by chellie r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
actions speak louder than words.any moron can feed you a line but only someone who really cares can show you sincerely.look out for all the little things he does for you without even trying.look at how he looks at you when you talk that kinda thing.i totally understand what you're saying though.it is really annoying and frustrating!!!
2007-01-25 03:03:08 · answer #5 · answered by Jane Doe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jesus H Christ just use their penis a a barometer if it's up there sunny and cheery if it's down there a cold front brewing and halfway in between sunny with cloudy periods....
2007-01-25 01:34:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your saying all guys don't talk about their feelings. Not all guys are like that.
2007-01-25 01:33:53 · answer #7 · answered by ryan d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i tell ppl how i feel all the time except for first dates. thats just stupid. most guys with integrity will tell you how they feel on second dates
2007-01-25 01:32:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they are scared that if they show their feeling that their masculenity will go down!!! they dont wanna be anything close to being girly
2007-01-25 01:33:32 · answer #9 · answered by blonde brunette 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
we feel the same about u ladies
2007-01-25 01:32:12 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Bobby D - The Angels Fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋