This guy he is after me for the period of 4 years.he has given all sorts of impression that he loves me but never proposed me directly.Recently during a conversation on phone i told him that i too love him,but he rejected and told me that why u got this doubt on me that i love you and finally he said he is engaged with another girl.after hearing that i was shattered . he didnt stopped there he told all my frnds that i proposed him. all my friends think that i purposly went to him n proposed.it hurted me still furthur. how should i handle the situation.
2007-01-24 17:22:06 · 11 answers · asked by kool 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First, if you are in love with a person and while proposing and it's been rejected, You should have capacity to take it easy. If you felt that he is giving the impressions of love, it is you who should have asked him directly. It was your fault. May be he would not have loved you. As you love him, whatever he helped or said to you in a friendly way was seen to you as he loved you. You cannot accept that he rejected you, That is why you feel like this.
Allways try to take things lightly to your heart and mind. Otherwise life is troublesome allways.Best forget him, Go on with your life happily.
2007-01-24 18:14:48 · answer #1 · answered by Mayandi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if as you're saying you're engaged there is an unstated comprehend-how which you 2 set a marriage date once you grew to grow to be engaged. if this did no longer take place then, you ought to take administration sweetly and say, i might prefer to set a marriage date of might 12, 2010 and commence making plans our wedding ceremony. until eventually you're 18 years previous, while you're the two by way of college and good in good jobs the time is now to set a date. if he balks and gets loopy and has a million excuses hastily why this wedding ceremony cant take place, properly, then you definately are no longer probable engaged are you? engaged potential you have a marriage date set. and it additionally might propose he isn't as large as you think of because of the fact he possibly does no longer probable prefer to marry you in any respect. your question has some holes in it, and that i doubt which you're engaged as i comprehend being engaged.
2016-09-27 23:13:53 · answer #2 · answered by doolin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But why did you wait for 4 years, maybe he was also patiently waiting for your move and he has given up at last.
Now he is hurting you, because you kept him on a hook for 4 long years, in high tension.
2007-01-24 19:07:41 · answer #3 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every dog has its day. Yesterday was his, yours will come someday. So as of now, just ignore him. U can't turn back the clock rite, so carry on with life. If your frens wud believe him b4 hearing your side of the story, then u know that they are not your true frens. So wat if you've poured out your feelings to a jerk and ended up being made fun of. If you feel like it, cry your heart out and then move on.
2007-01-24 19:28:35 · answer #4 · answered by Akki's Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear *****
close your eyes for a moment. take three deep breaths.see yourself, god have given you so many ability to do something . do something for them those who don't have anyone to look after.believe me you will get not only true love but a lot of blessing which will make your life happier then before.don't make the god shame on you.
2007-01-24 17:40:28 · answer #5 · answered by friend4all 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur avtar resembles like a boy, change it.
Why r u taking him seriously, such guys don't deserve attention.
2007-01-24 17:27:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cut him off and never speak to him again. Dont look back. life is short. Someone else WILL show up.
2007-01-24 17:27:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldn't make any mistake again n stop immediately away from him.try to get other bf better than him to show off.
2007-01-24 17:33:08 · answer #8 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would not say anything, he want attention. it his ego, that he
need stroking. so dont give him the satisfaction of playing the
game, you know what happen . so let him go his marry way
and move on.
2007-01-24 17:28:19 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ever hear that Carrie Underwood song "Before he Cheats"?
Thats what I would suggest, I hate cheaters
CARRIE UNDERWOOD LYRICS
"Before He Cheats"
Right now he's probably slow dancing with a bleach blonde tramp,
and she's probably getting frisky...
right now, he's probably buying her some fruity little drink cause she can't shoot whiskey...
Right now, he's probably up behind her with a pool-stick, showing her how to shoot a combo...
And he don't know...
That I dug my key into the side of his pretty little souped up 4 wheel drive,
carved my name into his leather seats...
I took a Louisville slugger to both head lights,
slashed a hole in all 4 tires...
Maybe next time he'll think before he cheats.
Right now, she's probably up singing some
white-trash version of Shania karoke..
Right now, she's probably saying "I'm drunk"
and he's a thinking that he's gonna get lucky,
Right now, he's probably dabbing on 3 dollars worth of that bathroom polo...
And he don't know...
That I dug my key into the side of his pretty little souped up 4 wheel drive,
carved my name into his leather seats,
I took a Louisville slugger to both head lights,
slashed a hole in all 4 tires...
Maybe next time he'll think before he cheats.
I might saved a little trouble for the next girl,
Cause the next time that he cheats...
Oh, you know it won't be on me!
Ohh... not on me...
Cause I dug my key into the side of his pretty little souped up 4 wheel drive,
carved my name into his leather seats...
I took a Louisville slugger to both head lights,
slashed a hole in all 4 tires...
Maybe next time he'll think before he cheats.
Ohh.. Maybe next time he'll think before he cheats...
Ohh... before he cheats...
2007-01-24 17:26:46 · answer #10 · answered by Cheryl B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋