Ok we have been an item for almost six months and she hasnt told her parents about me yet and I know she loves me and everything but why wont she tell them about me. It kinda makes me feel bad. I love her so much. and she is so damn hot. what should i do? cause i want to be with her and i wnt her parents to know about me and like me. I wonder if its becaues I am a girl and she only dated guys before and dosent know what her parents think.
2007-01-24 17:13:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No one is wrong in this situation. Sounds to me like she's not ready to come out to her parents. I assume you are young and as such, I think you should give her time. I understand that you want to be out in the open. If ultimately, she can't come out then maybe you need to find someone you can be open with or be willing to keep things on the down low for her sake. Do what will make you happiest.
2007-01-24 17:29:17 · answer #1 · answered by ca belle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is right. What are you trying to prove by pressuring her to come out with her family? For one, she may not even be sure about her sexuality, as you say up until now she has only had boyfriends. Why not let her decide if and when she wants her parents to know her sexual orientation--preferably when she herself knows and when/if you two are ready for a long-term commitment.
2007-01-25 01:22:48 · answer #2 · answered by schweetums 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My baby sister just had the same problem and her girlfriend finally told her parents... Her girlfriend was scared of what he mom and dad would say she said the thing that really scared her the most was would they get mad at me or just not ever speak to her again.... But her parents was upset but they got over it and now they are all happy... I don't know if that's gonna help you or not But I tryed..
2007-01-25 01:26:42 · answer #3 · answered by redneckbabie77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been through this before, I still haven't told my mother. And I've had nine girlfriends, one of which I loved for five-years. But she kept pressing me to come out and bring her to my mom's house for dinner, etc. Long story short, she pushed me away with her over assertiveness. Thread thin.
2007-01-25 01:34:16 · answer #4 · answered by Dynamite D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I mean its probably hard for her to come out to her parents I have a sister who dates girls I mean I love her you should just wait for her to come around she probably doesn't know how to tell her folks right now
2007-01-25 01:21:49 · answer #5 · answered by shawn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HSe probably just feels scared and awkward about the situation. She will come around and tell them just wait it out. Good luck to the both of you and your families.
2007-01-25 04:04:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she is ready to come out to her parents then be suportive. Until then enjoy what you have. In laws are a pain anyway!! haha
2007-01-25 01:18:40 · answer #7 · answered by jagbeeton 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might think she will disapoint her parents and be disowned
2007-01-25 01:17:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Duh!!!!!! She is right
2007-01-25 01:19:22 · answer #9 · answered by martymartian00 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋