I was wondering if I am a man or a guy. I am about two years away from becoming an RN and am 19. I am old fashioned and I am very protective of my sweetheart, I mean girlfriend. I don't get jealous if she talks or works with another man, but I want to keep her from harm. I am loyal to her and I want only her. She is the reason why I get up in the morning to better myself to help others. I look for the good in other people and feel compassion for helping others. I express things like saying "swell" for "good" and "alrighty" for "ok". I normally wear jeans and a dress shirt with sometimes a sweater vest over it. I played on my high school football team and now work at a nursing home. So please, what are your thoughts?
2007-01-24 17:02:03 · 7 answers · asked by Lee R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Doesn't matter what you do or how you act, at 19 your a guy.
2007-01-24 17:07:30 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've heard both men and women, girls and boys, referred to as
"guys" nowadays. So, I'd say you are a man without a doubt...but wouldn't be bothered if someone referred to you
as a guy. I assume you think of a man as more mature than a
guy by your question...and I assume that you wonder if your
occupation, the way you dress, and the way you look out for your girlfriend, makes you seem less of a man.
From the way you describe yourself, you seem to be a perfectly
normal down-to-earth man. As for being a RN, there's no difference between a man being a nurse than there is a woman
being a doctor. It's is perfectly acceptable and an honorable profession.
Your work in the nursing home tells me that you enjoy caring for and helping people. Too many people keep their distance from
nursing homes because of the mistaken impression they have
about the atmosphere there. My wife and I have a Sunday School class at the local nursing home each week and we've
come to love the people there. We get more out of it than they
do.
You are a straight up young man with a lot going for you. Best of luck in all that you do.
2007-01-25 01:20:00 · answer #2 · answered by Northwest Womps 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your a great guy, have a nice personality, and independent then your a man at least in my definition
2007-01-25 01:06:31 · answer #3 · answered by rk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is sweetheart one of the options, I say you're a man. :)
2007-01-25 01:07:48 · answer #4 · answered by Lollipop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your a guy!
2007-01-25 01:08:28 · answer #5 · answered by .Samantha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guy!
2007-01-25 01:08:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GUY!
2007-01-25 01:05:32 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋