Why would a woman from my past accuse me of being in love with her when I'm not.?

Question

I met her 15 years ago when she was single. She is married now.I was not in love with her then and I am not now. And I do not see her now. I have no interest in her.Yet she swears that I am unhappy 'without her'. I have stopped defending myself.

Answer 1

All I can say is, be very, very careful. Take this from a woman: A lot of women are WHACKED, and this one sounds like a prime example. You may be wise to start documenting all of your encounters: dates, times, places, what was said by whom. Try to have witnesses you trust with you when you encounter her. Get him/her to write up a brief summary of the encounter--DON'T try to get it to match your own, just make sure your witness is honest! Be careful with everything you say, because trust me, things like sarcasm don't come through in a transcript. (A dripping "Sure I love you, honey" will be read as 100% sincere by an astonishing number of people.) DO NOT TOUCH THIS WOMAN, in any way, unless she is about to fall off a cliff or in front of a train--and be darn sure there are witnesses who can swear that you saved her life, nothing more. And if she tries to hug you afterward for doing so, AVOID lettering her touch you, either. DO NOT take phone calls from this woman (don't make excuses or apologize--when you hear her voice, just hang up!), and if you ever find yourself having a phone conversation with her, document it as thoroughly as you would a personal encounter.

Above all: Don't EVER EVER EVER let yourself be alone with this woman, because I smell a phony rape charge coming. This woman is mentally unbalanced, and you have become an important part of whatever bizarre fantasies she's propping herself up with. When (if you should be so lucky!) you finally succeed in popping her little dream bubble, she could turn on you in a very, very nasty way. Brace yourself, and be proactive in your defense by assembling it NOW.

Answer 2

Well it seems quite apparent that she is in love with you or wants you to be in love with her? maybe she is experiencing a problem marriage and is not getting enough attention anyway, you should not stop defending yourself and just hold on once she realizes how stupid she is being hopefully she can snap back to reality =]

Answer 3

Then its the other way round,she must be in love with you and the only way to let you know is by accusing you.it happens to many married women,they fall in love out side marriage.But advice her to take care of her family

Answer 4

no u havent stoped defending your self i mean come on dude if she is still doing this that is like abuse and if she wont stop and u want her to stop tell her and if doesnt listen then call the cops i mean come on.

Answer 5

She's bitter that she didn't get you.

She's crossing the line into the realm of Hallucination.

Ignore her completely.

Answer 6

probably she is in fond of u, she wants u to be again her lover.This is the history man.Usually ladies don't want to be defeated they keep their womanish dignity.she will not say "i love u" instead she expect the words from u

Answer 7

Stop you communication with her and if you let your guards down then you are giving in to what she has said.

Answer 8

thats weird. yeah she's definately still into you since she's trying to accuse you with something. maybe she still thinks so because you still talk to her. but if you ignore her completely then yeah she'll feel like she's over you.

Answer 9

Two words: restraining order.

Answer 10

I believe it's called mental illness...