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Do I get on my knees to put it on her finger and tell her what I promise with her? If I surprise her with a ring does she have to get me one?

2007-01-24 16:18:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Weddings

7 answers

Why don't you just propose to her??

Skip all that promise ring stuff.
If you are too young to be getting married, just wait.
You don't need a ring to tell her you love her and you plan on spending the rest of your life with her....

My boyfriend and I talk about marriage all the time and are going to get married after college. He's not getting me a promise ring. I ALREADY KNOW that he plans on being with me forever. A promise ring is useless. It's just another ring to buy...

2007-01-24 16:24:57 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0 3

Definitely get down on one knee, unless you have bad knees. I know it's cliche but she's been imagining you on one knee since she was a kid.

If you don't want to wear a promise ring, talk about it to her before she buys a ring. If you want a promise ring in return, suggest it to her and be specific which type of ring you would prefer or you may end up with something too much like a wedding ring. Don't be disappointed if she doesn't give you one in return, though. It's not really a standard practice.

2007-01-24 16:52:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

No and No.

A promise ring is not a proposal, it is a promise not to cheat on her and to peruse the relationship seriously until you are emotionally, financially, and physically ready to get engaged, if that is what you decide is best for the both of you.

As far as being on one knee, that is for engagements. This is not an engagement, so save it until you ask her for real.

You can wear a promise ring, but very few men do.

Good Luck!

2007-01-24 17:12:26 · answer #3 · answered by emp04 5 · 2 0

Here are some ideas:
1. Why don't you just propose to her and give her the promise ring at the same time as the engagement ring?
2. Why don't you give it to her whilst doing something that you know she wants to do or likes doing, romantic dinner/ midnight stroll on the beach/ picnic etc. and tell her what you promise

Hope it helps, good luck!!! :)

2007-01-24 16:29:12 · answer #4 · answered by Emmzonline 2 · 0 0

no she doesn't have to get you one! I got a promise ring before and he gave it to me with a letter that was really sweet.

I wouldn't get on your knees she may think you are proposing.

2007-01-24 16:26:13 · answer #5 · answered by Bride2Be 8/30/08 5 · 1 1

no, she doesnt have to get you one. (:

it'd be nice if it's after a romantic dinner (: depending on the kind of person she is, she may be embarrassed if you kneel down in public. try a nice quiet spot if you want to do thatt,

2007-01-24 16:23:18 · answer #6 · answered by boogiesbottom 3 · 0 1

who u be?

2007-01-24 16:26:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

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