i know some people (mostly Girls) who always say I Love You one second and then the next its I Hate You the next... im not saying its only girls who say it im just saying most guys i hang out with accutally think about it before they say the words I Love You or I Hate You. Why is it that some people find it so easy to say those words and throw them around all the time. especially in Relationships. most of my friends relationships the girl was usually the first one to say I Love You... sometimes within the first few weeks...
2007-01-24 16:14:36 · 10 answers · asked by Dont get Infected 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
so you rather have someone say i love you so you get attention instead of having them really love you?
2007-01-24 16:19:17 · update #1
ive only ever said the words i love you and i hate you to someone once. and i meant it. i said i hate 1 of the people i grew up with and have known most of my life... all he would do is torment me and make me feel less then i acctually was. up even through highschool. and i said i love you to my 2nd girlfriend after ive dated her for a few months and never wanted to be with anyone else... well... she had different plans i geuss.... she moved on
2007-01-24 16:24:45 · update #2
see, that's the sad thing. its` tossed around like its nothing so you honestly can`t tell nowadays when a person actually means it or not :(
2007-01-24 16:18:59 · answer #1 · answered by Taylor. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-12 19:45:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is somewhat true, but some girls don't think much of it as some do. Have you realized that girls lately say it all the time, to friends to guys to.. everyone. it has lost it's true meaning.
For me, I've never said I love you first. When they say i hate you, they usually don't mean it completely it doesn't matter how much they say they mean it, they usually feel awful afterwards. It's hard to get over but some girls are like that.
2007-01-24 16:20:23 · answer #3 · answered by Ashley[!] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i know what you mean some people play with those words like they are nothing. those are serious words and women who do that or men make it bad for the rest of us. the are nothing to play with. they are to be words from the heart and if you feel them and really feel them you can't say you love someone one day then not the next
2007-01-24 16:20:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, younger girls in particular fall in and out of love as quickly as a leaf falls from a tree. They mean love and hate when they say it but change their minds a moment or two later. As they mature, the words will be thought out more I can assure you.
2007-01-24 16:20:05 · answer #5 · answered by Poohcat1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because words have lost their meaning. I totally agree with your sentiment. But I find that most people don't mean what they say in any real way. Its a sign of slumping morals and its sad really.
2007-01-24 16:21:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think b/c both words always get a reaction whether positive or negative,some people just like attention!
2007-01-24 16:18:27 · answer #7 · answered by molliehollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are just words.... anyone can say them, but they have to be proved by actions to have any real meaning...
2007-01-24 16:22:36 · answer #8 · answered by Katie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah. with the amount of LOVE between teenagers in the US im surprised the marriage rate isnt enormous.
2007-01-24 16:20:08 · answer #9 · answered by dirtyoldman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
because they're just words.
2007-01-24 16:17:55 · answer #10 · answered by angie20k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋