And I cant believe i even thought he'd come back some time later. Since he's having trouble balancing his life right now, like his psycho parents who calls him everyday and sends him 10 emails a day just to tell him to call them everyday, academic probation, wanting to hang out more with his guy friends, etc. He simply has no time/mood for me especially since we are long distance. So I thought maybe after he graduates in 4 months he'd want me back. By then he has no probation, he doesnt have to listen to his parents all the time b/c he'll be financially independent and he wont hang out with his guy friends playing video games all day. And he's very shy, geeky, doesnt have any female friends. So i thought maybe 4 months later he'll come back since right now he cant handle a relationship especially i admit i'm a bit clingy and high maintenance. But now when people tease him he'd say "yeah, she's psycho" and how i was crazy. I dont think he's ever coming back, you think?
2007-01-24 14:30:16 · 23 answers · asked by little asian gal in cresent city 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should burn his house down to show him how not crazy you are.
2007-01-24 14:33:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Read your question like it was one of your friends asking about their ex-boyfriend doing all this craziness. What would you tell her?
You need to be by yourself right now and be happy and strong in the woman that you are. First of all....you could get SO much better. Just look at how you described him...
1. Academic probation...you say he's going to graduate? Hmmm...not anytime soon maybe
2. He has no time/mood for you....you deserve better. There are tons of men (not boys) out there that are willing to spend quality time with you and treat you with respect.
3. Plays video games all day....he is immature, why would you want to be with someone like that?
4. (Last but not least) He calls you psycho and crazy in front of his friends (and I am assuming behind your back b/c this is a long distance thing?)...why...WHY would you want to be with someone who disrespects you like that!?!?
Get happy with you, ditch the dude. He sounds like he doesn't want to grow up and you don't have time for boys in your life.
2007-01-24 14:39:24 · answer #2 · answered by faithy_q_t_poo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't want to make you feel bad I can understand the frustration. Just let me tell you that I am a parent and we want the best for our children, and I am high maintenance. Honestly I have a Teen son and they are very hard to understand, my son is on probation, and I have to be on top of everything because I don't want later for him to throw at my face that I wasn't a good mother, but that's not the real reason, I love my son to peaces. One thing about boys, men don't like controlling girlfriends, that scares them away from any female. He has anger issues it sounds like with you, because you might be putting him down, them geeky guys will drive you crazy I ended up with one, he is the father of my children, have the crazy mother in law, not to mention I cant stand her, because he has put me threw hell and back, calls me what your boyfriend calls you and it was worse before it got better, do you want to be my age suffering with this guy for 20 years, guys mature when in their 30 a little 40 they go back to teens, it's crazy but a fact. I didn't think he would cheat, that geek cheated on me over 100 times. I was a royal b**** because he drove me crazy. So good luck and back off a little, he'll come around when you give him the silent treatment. He might not be as bad, just change some of your ways, so you wont scare any guy away, damn if you care and damn if you don't.
2007-01-24 15:11:10 · answer #3 · answered by HOPE 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when he graduates college?
I don't know what's with you two but I'll answer your first question...Since you call his family psycho, he calls you psycho and thinks that's fine. It doesn't mean anything either way, that he likes you or doesn't like you...it's merely "your" word.
You talk about his "probation"? Why on earth do you want a guy who is on probation anyway?
On matters of friendships and relationships, a person can never tell what's going to happen till it happens. Wait and see.
2007-01-24 14:38:19 · answer #4 · answered by sophieb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him. he sounds like he's kind of emotionally high maintenance to be honest. you don't need someone who says things like that about you. just because he's your ex doesn't mean that he has to right to put you down. but don't worry about what his friends think anyways. it doesn't really matter anyway! move on and find someone better and new, who is more matture. you said it yourself, he's immature. so you can find someone who will treat you the way you want to be treated and the way that you should be treated, with respect, and that you can respect back. and i highly doubt that just because he finishes school means he'll go and be independent of his parents right away, let alone give up his time playing video games with his pals. he just doesn't sound like that type.
good luck!
2007-01-24 14:38:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If after all the things he is doing and you are still asking if he's ever coming back, then maybe he is right ... you are a psycho and crazy.
2007-01-24 14:33:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get that book "he's just not into you". I dont mean to be harsh, but all the signs are pointing to that. You shouldnt put your life on hold or wait for someone if you have broken up. Broken up means you have issues that you cant or dont want to solve. He is stressing you out, so stay away from him and dont talk to him, he isnt good for you.
2007-01-24 14:35:53 · answer #7 · answered by Affirmation 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit wasting your time with hoping to get this loser back.
There are so many people out there hoping they significant other they hate comes back.
Life is too short to spend it with bad people.
2007-01-24 14:35:25 · answer #8 · answered by khanofali 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say he is probably not coming back, and who wants someone who calls you a psycho anyway?
2007-01-24 14:34:24 · answer #9 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on sweetie Move on. If he is not giving u any play after 4 months move on
2007-01-24 14:34:16 · answer #10 · answered by pammybear1971 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time for you to be the intelligent one...fire his @ss....find someone with some intelligence and go from there...or stay with him...suffer the consequences and be quiet and do not whine...honest enough?? i am retired from the us army...i have seen all types of people you can imagine...from your boyfriend to some of the most amazing folks you can imagine...be an adult...make a decision and honor it ...fire his @ss
2007-01-24 14:36:37 · answer #11 · answered by Michael K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋