I'm a junior and haven't been on a real date yet. How do I go about asking a girl out? How do I know who to ask? I am totally clueless and totally lonely.
2007-01-24 14:09:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well...take ur time and start hanging out at parties..well respectable ones and get to know people..there might be the girl you are looking for there!
~LD
2007-01-24 14:14:35 · answer #1 · answered by Ladie Alicia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you need to find that girl that you can talk to, and when i say talk I mean really talk, almost like a guy friend where you can talk for hours and talk about almost everything. Then you kind of need to show that you like her by flirting, saying nice things, compliment her on how she looks and things like that. The next thing is you got to keep that up for about a week and a half. After that you ask her what she will be doing over the weekend, and if you see an open spot in her plans you ask her if she would like to hang out. You have to make sure that you ask her this when she is finished telling you what she would be doing over the weekend, because when you ask her at the and she will feel bad if she tells you that she can't hang out even though you know what she is already doing. It's almost like a trap. Then you have a 75% that she will say yes and a 15% that it's a no and 10% that it's a maybe.
and trust me this whole talking thing will help in a relationship because if you don't talk the girl might think that you are boring. when you are with this girl on the date and you guys talk the whole date than time will pass by faster and also keep your cool don't get nervous. Try to think of her as the best friend, that is a girl, that you feel confident to talk to.
and don't worie if you get rejected there are lots of girls plus your young and got a whole ife ahead of you.
2007-01-24 22:32:07 · answer #2 · answered by saul_dlrs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. All i can say is dont rush it. Being lonely is better then having a heartache. And plus, enjoy the single life. You have the whole life ahead of you to be taken ;].
if anything, you`ll just know when the girls right for you. Trust. Theres that feeling, when you see her, you smile and you know why, yet you also dont. You cant help but stare at her. etc etc.
But dont rush it. Usually when you rush things, they never turn out as good. Take things slow. Personal experience
goodluck =)
2007-01-24 22:14:54 · answer #3 · answered by hellooo (= 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get off the computer, go out, and meet some real, live people. Once you have fit yourself into a group, if one of its female members appeal to you, ask her for (pizza, coffee--whatever you can afford).
Remember to be yourself--everybody can spot a phoney. Don't try too hard--things come to those who are patient.
2007-01-24 22:16:01 · answer #4 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Approach a woman you are interested in. Ask her if she would like to have dinner with you on Saturday evening. Wait for reply.
Usually better to warm up to them first, and have some kind of conversation and/or flirtation beforehand.
Oh and loneliness is a huge turn-off for women.
Dont be all needy and desperate. Make friends, engage in social activities, be active in things you enjoy.
2007-01-24 22:14:44 · answer #5 · answered by polk2525 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm well try to find a smart kind and pretty girl in one of ur classes and try to get to know her. become her friend and then see what happens. rather then finding the girl u can date...try looking 4 someone u can trust and be ur self with..and by then im sure u'll get a date!!lolz....hope this helped ..not so good at dating advice=)
2007-01-24 22:16:07 · answer #6 · answered by fariha j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okk well first you should get friends that are girls first...then work your way from there...
if you like a girl...dont jump and ask her out right away...get to know her and then look into it...
but dont be all nerdy and stalk her lol
just be cool hahaha
i hope everything works out for you
good luck
<3
2007-01-24 22:29:59 · answer #7 · answered by samyjoe515 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out!
2007-01-24 22:14:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll find her. I PROMISE! Don't worry too much. I'm pretty much in the same situation.
Feel free to IM me either on AIM or Yahoo...
AIM: i stole sin
Yahoo: lilboss416
jamee :)
2007-01-24 22:14:13 · answer #9 · answered by lilboss416 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2007-01-24 22:15:05 · answer #10 · answered by The Prince 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋