I just had s.e.x last year with my ex and was my first time.
we didn't go too far but stil it did hurts. the thing is that i havn't seen blood during or after??? it maybe becaue he didn't get inside me?
i tell pp that i'm not vergin anymore but i'm just curious, am i?
anyone who have experience or have something to say.
2007-01-24 14:06:08 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well...it could also be that you have broken your hymen before. You don't have to have sex to have break your hymen it could break during playing a sport or riding horses. Also it may be that he didnt stretch it enough to break. I know some people that they don't bleed until the 3rd time doing it.
~LD
2007-01-24 14:10:55 · answer #1 · answered by Ladie Alicia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Heart: The only way you can be sure is by going to the Dr. for an exam. The Dr. can tell you if the hymen was broken. NObody else answering you can do anything but guess. Sometimes there is blood, and sometimes not. Go to the Dr. and get on birth control pills if you are thinking of having sex again. An RN
2007-01-24 14:13:01 · answer #2 · answered by shari w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm that is a tough one i guess in some ways as it does seem that he did try to penetrate your hymen (which is were the pain came from) but seeings that he didn't actually seem to break thru it (gathering that from the part where you say maybe he didn't get inside of me - cause you would know) then i would tend to say that you are still a virgin as if a doctor was to do an exam (and just from looking at your hymen) he would conclude that you were still a virgin as it doesn't seem that it's been penetrated.
Another bit of advise .. don't share with others your sexual status life is hard enough with people judging you for things that you do that they may not agree with or simply don't understand ....you don't want another issue bigger then the one you are currently struggling with so just be careful and choosy about with whom you share that kind of information with.
Good Luck with your future decisions.
2007-02-01 03:37:17 · answer #3 · answered by annondazmom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go to the doctor and have them check to see, there might be something wrong with you... But I didn't bleed my first time either, I bled the second time. So it does depend on the guy. he might not have done it right or something. Everyone that is saying that once you had sex the first time no matter if you bleed or not...your no longer a virgin...sorry hun. But if you don't want to have sex until your ready again, then don't.
2007-02-01 11:16:56 · answer #4 · answered by Tigerlover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't always bleed when you lose virginity- no your not a virgin. it depends on how old or how long youv'e had your period as well. The if you have had your period your hymen eventually goes away. i started my period when i was 12 and lost my virginity at 15 and i never bled. everyone is different though.
2007-02-01 13:39:54 · answer #5 · answered by 2516 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably had a small penis and didn't break the hymen. So technically you are a biological virgin still. Next time get a "big boy".
2007-01-24 14:27:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if it hurt he prob got it in. Although if you didn't know then maybe hes small or didn't really get it in, hard to say. If you used tampons before sex experience, they broke your Hyman, so he didn't, no blood.
2007-01-24 14:15:17 · answer #7 · answered by ShanNO 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go to a Dr. and be checked by obgyn - he may not have broken your hem?
2007-01-24 14:11:17 · answer #8 · answered by darlene g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to read up on sex ed before you do nething more you sound very young, dont do anything you dont understand!
2007-02-01 06:54:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok well if you had sex your not a virgin.. but you say he might not of gotten inside you? you deffinately should of been able to tell.. so if he DID you aren't a virgin if he didn't you still are
2007-01-24 14:13:06 · answer #10 · answered by valerieeeann 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋