Ok so..how do I ask her out?

Question

there is this girl i like....we're both in 10th grade. We get along really well and we're pretty good friends. I like her but I can't ask her out because the last time I asked out the girl that I liked that i was friends with, it ruined our friendship. I don't want to lose my friendship with her but I also want to ask her out. Anyone have any advice I'd really appreciate it,..

Answer 1

try just asking her on a date first. its kind of intimidating jumping into a full-on relationship like that. maybe just start by dating and see if you both are comfortable with being with each other like that and then consider a relationship

as for being rejected. it happens to everyone, so dont get put down. try not to get your hopes up too much, but dont be expecting the worst either. just let things happen. keep everything relaxed as possible and chances are you wont be as hurt

really hope this helps and i hope everything works out for you

Answer 2

Compromise, my friend...if the relationship is soured, she isn't a good friend, wouldn't you agree?

I'd suggest you just ask her on a regular outing...don't call it a date (that's what I mean by compromise). Once you've done this, let her do the "leading" - you just go with the flow and make use of opportunities as they present themselves.

Good luck, mate.

Answer 3

okk well if shes that good of a friend then it wont ruin your relationship at all...i say take the chance and ask her out...atleast you can say you tried, and if you dont then you'll regret it, so take a chance and go for it!!
maybe to make things easier, why dont you find out if she likes you first
good luck

Answer 4

if you really know her, you wont be afraid to ask or do any move. just ask her to go out for a dinner, walk along the beach sore , any romantic places etc..etc.. for a couple of weeks. by that she will just fall into you.. just wait... dont force her feelings....

Answer 5

ok, well,if you dont try youll never know.