So i was talking with my ex online, cuz we're r still friends. and he asked me out again. but i have a boyfriend. but i still kinda like my ex. but i don't want to break my boyfriends heart. and they r both good guys. and they r both really good to me. what the hell do i do???
2007-01-24 13:55:23 · 11 answers · asked by Brittany J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him you have a boyfriend. and if you still cant get over your ex after a while, then youre gonna have to make a choice. either break up with your current bf and go out with your ex.... or stay with your bf and tell your ex to seriously stop asking you out.
2007-01-24 14:01:06 · answer #1 · answered by luverly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay with your current boyfriend. If you broke up with your ex then why go back when you have someone that treats you really good? You say you still kinda like your ex, but it may just be nostalgia from the fact that you're talking to him and he wants to be with you again. So don't go back with him; stick to your boyfriend.
2007-01-24 14:04:12 · answer #2 · answered by BLiNKK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, my best advice that i have ever dished out and taken myself is
REMEMBER WHY YOU BROKE UP IN THE FIRST PLACE.
depending on that reason, make your decision. If you broke up bc hes a cheater, or he is lacking some valuable male appendage, then dont bother. if you broke up for a decent reason, like school, or someone moved or what not...then maybe you have a chance for happiness.
as for your current boyfriend...is he worth losing?? Why did you go out with your current BF? Does he treat you nice? is new love worth the price of going back to someone you already know?
--hope this helps and good luck
2007-01-24 14:02:57 · answer #3 · answered by beltanes_ember 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okk i say stay w/ your bf...if you and your ex broke up then it must have been for a good reason or you would have still been together...and if you too go out again and he breaks your heart, then you might not have your bf waiting for you...ya know
if your happy w/ this guy your w/...i say stay w/ him...if things dont work out between you too then i would consider it...
is your ex making you feel guilty??...cause if he is hes sooo not worth it...dont be weak and give in to him...stay strong
i hope everything works out for you
<3
2007-01-24 14:14:18 · answer #4 · answered by samyjoe515 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Britt...did you break up with your ex?
You made a choice by going out with the second guy. Stick to your choice, babes...you don't sound deceitful, and if you had to deceive either of them, you'd cause a lot of unwanted hurt and generate feelings of guilt you can do without! Trust me on this one!
Be honest with your ex - but also tell him you've made a choice. Be friends with the guy, but don't lead him to believe you still harbor romantic feelings for him.
If you don't want to hurt either of them, be true to yourself and stick to your choice!
Love ya!
2007-01-24 14:13:23 · answer #5 · answered by weskusmafia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in this situation. There must of been some reason why you and your BF broke up, so why would you want to take that risk? Stay with your current BF! He's the one you chose!
2007-01-24 14:02:29 · answer #6 · answered by You're My Wonderwall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never go back
always look forward and you will not get hurt again
2007-01-24 14:03:06 · answer #7 · answered by mr_gabby54944 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what a man would do - play them both!! Nah thats mean I think follow your heart - you will know who to choose.
2007-01-24 14:02:05 · answer #8 · answered by jyejas35 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have a choice. either be loyal or be a sl--.
its up to you.
2007-01-24 14:03:18 · answer #9 · answered by dirtyoldman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do it. you probably broke up with him for a reason.
2007-01-24 14:01:05 · answer #10 · answered by gonehaydn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋