Okay so you probably know from my previous question that I have been dating this guy for a long time (4 years). Well we are in high school and i'm on the dance team I have loads of friends and guys ask me out left and right...I mean I don't dress like a slut and its not my fault GOD GAVE ME A BIG BUTT FOR SOME UNKNOWN REASON!!! Well I really love my boyfriend but he gets mad when he see's me talking to a boy...By the way: I am not a whore.
2007-01-24 13:49:51 · 10 answers · asked by Jinxy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I NEED ADVISE!
2007-01-24 13:52:38 · update #1
You can talk to other guys and not be considered a whore!
Your guy sounds insecure and may be he's scared he'll lose you.
It doesn't sound like you trying to get attention, so just talk to him about how you feel.
My guy ilpinman knows how hot I am for him and ONLY him, so he doesn't mind me talking to other guys. After being with him I couldn't even think of being with any other guy.
Your the best ilpinman and I love ya babe!
2007-01-26 03:45:43 · answer #1 · answered by CURVY 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I don't believe how you dress means sh!t,its a free country and the word w**** is dropped just too often so the meaning is worn out and useless. I am not even offended if someone wanted to say that at me.It becomes a matter of self-confidence and only important stuff matters.There are children starving to death and homeless people out in the cold.So if some small brain says w***,b**** or any other impressive word it is due to their small brain no time in my life for that kind of people.Guys ask u out L&R is a good thing you demonstate a good persoality sensitivity and good qualitys.Probably also the looks department too!!If your boyfriend gets mad he is the one with insecuritys& hang-ups.Also you are very young and HS sweethearts rarely last past HS.Many,many people try & it just don't work any more.In the 1950's it did,but women were not expected to build a career or go to college.Just to have kids like a retired racehorse does!!!
2007-02-01 19:26:36 · answer #2 · answered by Dotr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your your own person and hes uncomfortable by that. most guys and men are. hes young and so are you and you guys are probably each others first loves. he obviously realizes what a great catch you are and probably is pretty insecure because you sound pretty outgoing. he should trust you and that will relieve a lot of unnecessary tension. im 34 and my boyfriend is 26 and i still go through it.
2007-02-01 19:58:32 · answer #3 · answered by xtal6872 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't even understand this question...but what I want to know is...why are you going out of your way to tell us that your not a whore...did you think we would call you a whore.
2007-02-01 19:01:01 · answer #4 · answered by chyna0069 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know that he is the only one for you, but you are still going to be the friendly sexy person you have always been.
My gal Melrose has an awesome body and very pretty face and she always dresses really sexy (short skirt, garter belt and stockings, low cut tight top to show her natural 36DD, high heels, etc.) when we go out. Guys are always looking at her and wanting to talk to her. I do not have a problem with this because I know that my Melrose only wants me. You need to make your boyfriend understand that you only want him.
2007-01-26 11:05:23 · answer #5 · answered by ICARRYABIGSTICK 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
you need to explain to him that you would never cheat on him, and if you was going to you would of done it by now, also mention you dont like it when he gets mad cos its like hes saying to you your acting the whore for talking to men etc
2007-02-01 14:50:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have a butt for a reason I dont know why women complain so much about having a (big ) butt I Personaly I think that a big butt is nice.
2007-02-01 20:19:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIM, jealousy will drive u both apart in the long run anyway, it's not worth putting up with the bull now when in a jealous rage one night he winds up hurting u! DUUUUUUURRRRRRRRRR sorry..just saying
2007-02-01 19:19:05 · answer #8 · answered by Pamela Michele 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love your boyfriend STOP flirting.
Maybe you haven't notice that you are flirting. I can tell for the way you describe yourself.
Looks are not forever BELIVE ME!
2007-02-01 20:35:36 · answer #9 · answered by analee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he needs to learn how to trust. Talking is one thing but he is the one getting the kisses.
2007-02-01 18:13:23 · answer #10 · answered by beetem@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋