I don't know how to ask a girl out. I probably don't have the "high-school reputation" or the guts. I need help ASAP!
2007-01-24 13:44:16 · 9 answers · asked by Matt W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know how to ask a girl out. I probably don't have the "high-school reputation," physical appearance, or the guts. I need help ASAP!
2007-01-24 13:52:27 · update #1
The best way to ask a girl out is causally. Dont put too much pressure on her, or do something embarressing, because this will make it uncomfortable. Just dont think about it too much before hand, and walk up to her when shes not completley surrounded by her friends and ask "hey I was woundering if you you want to ________ this saturday?" Just causal. Then go on a fun date. Something that will give you something to do and talk about...like an amusement park then a picnic together! goodluck! :o)
2007-02-01 12:40:31 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica :o) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AWWWW!!! Well if your sweet and romantic then you have a big time chance. Im in high school too, and most of the girls just care about a guys rep, but not all.
Just take a chance and go for it, no worries, if she turns you down the its her loss.
2007-01-24 13:49:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well first you should get to kno this girl. like say hi and then ask her for her name. get to kno her first, i mean you can't just go up to some random person asking them out!! AND MAKE SURE SHE DOESN'T HAVE A BF!!!! so become her friend and then just tell her "i like you, do you think we could go out sometime?" if she asks what kinda date, say "friend date"(it makes girls feel safe). take her to a movie. if she says no, its ok. she's probably missing out on a great guy so its ok. maybe sooner or later she'll ask you out, and if u still like her say "yes" with a smile ^_^ thats my adivce, since i am a girl XDD
2007-01-24 13:52:41 · answer #3 · answered by Zelia Armeigo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its very simple be honest and straight forward. you go up to someone start talking abit could be about the class or something and then ask. that is how its done and she can say yes or no. if she says yes get the phone number and call then get to know her also.
2007-01-31 13:37:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lemme give oyu some advice...
1. flowers to me at least are a MUST
2. try to look mature
3. DO NOT use lines
4. speak clearly
5. and most importantly, dont be anyone other than you, changing ur voice, and normal actions portray u in a way that isnt hu ur tryin to sell to her.
2007-02-01 12:48:40 · answer #5 · answered by sambucca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy you better make the move now!!
how cares about you rep as long as you have a great personality you will be fine.
But ask her before someone else does.
LOL!! if it dont work out contact me:D
2007-01-28 13:35:45 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. Kevin Jonas♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey. im in high school too. well the 1st thing to do would be to go up and start saying like, "hey did you see that movie....." or if your in the same classes say, "i hate that teacher....." or something like that. but it would be better to do the movie one, because if she didnt, ask her about seeing the movie with you.
2007-02-01 11:47:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, its not something to be nervous about. if you like her then tell her, especially if she likes you and then ask her out. if she says no then its her loss.
2007-02-01 12:11:50 · answer #8 · answered by Tiffany Rae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just have one of your freinds [that is her freind too] go and see if she likes you. that is how me and my guy have been dating for 6 months
2007-02-01 11:53:14 · answer #9 · answered by miss heartbreaker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋