We have some classes together tomorrow.
Do I ignore her, greet her, be nice to her?
I am not an *sshole. I just want her to be comfortable around me.
2007-01-24 13:25:04 · 11 answers · asked by Wuuut? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You guys are all great so far.
Thanks!!
2007-01-24 13:41:29 · update #1
With respect... the same you'd give to your brother's wife/girlfriend...nothing more, nothing less....
Greet her and be nice to her with respect. Ignoring her will create discomfort and that's not the goal you'd had in mind when you posted this :)
The first greeting will be the most difficult but it's up to you to create the tone of how it's going to go. She'll pleasantly discover that you are not going to put her through the discomfort of ignoring her nor pushing yourself on her and it'll be forgotten the quickest that way. Not "forgotten", but you know what i mean...
I'd like to say it was her loss but you know best so I'll spare you that cliche!!!
2007-01-24 13:34:31 · answer #1 · answered by mickeymouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reaction of being rejected is a horrible feeling but you have to get over it. Its a real bad feeling to be rejected especially if its with someone you really admire. But you have to move on and maybe in the future you could be more than a friend! So you can act the way you acted before you asked her out. So be normal and act as if you never made a move. It maybe hard but like I said you might become more than friends in the future!!!
2007-01-24 13:36:02 · answer #2 · answered by phatface13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just act as though things are status qou. Be casual...nod or say hello if you see her. keep it friendly. She will respect you for being mature enough to handle a rejection and still be normal around her. Being a jerk to her would just make her feel even better about having said no to you. It would only be hurting yourself and your chances with any other girls who would see your potential bad behaviour. Go with the flow...be cool.
2007-01-24 13:32:49 · answer #3 · answered by silentscreamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think of it as being rejected. She just didn't feel the same connection that you did. You should just continue being exactly how you've always been. There's nothing wrong with asking a girl out & her saying she feels differently for you & then you being just friends. That's how it should be.
Good Luck with the next hottie.
2007-01-24 13:34:23 · answer #4 · answered by earthangel_candy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you act general like no longer something got here approximately! It takes guts to declare your emotions to a various individual. you ought to be a brave guy and with lots of heart. Be your self. If she alters her strategies you will get it. she will have the skill to coach it. If no longer this is her loss. contained in the propose time in no way get caught on any woman. there are a number of them accessible.
2016-09-27 23:05:23 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unphased. The key to dating (for most people) is to not take rejection personally. Besides, she's missing out on you, not the other way around.
2007-01-24 13:32:04 · answer #6 · answered by BRAINS! 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Greet her, you don't have to fall at her feet but if she says hello to you you should at least have enough self respect to respond in kind.
2007-01-24 13:32:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on be even more confidient around her this will set her off thinking wow this guy doesnt care about anything he seems fun.so just dont care. when you see her smile and think about if she had a best friend what would they be like. and then be him.
2007-01-24 13:30:42 · answer #8 · answered by mitchrix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be normal..dont act any nicer or meaner..just act usual..
2007-01-24 13:31:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
simple... the ignore code
2007-01-24 13:28:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋