I dated this guy for almost a year and we were great but then highschool started and i have always had feelings for him but i broke up with him well yesterday he gave me the impression that he liked me he was talkin about our past relationship like our song and things that we did....but now last week i told someone that i liked them and now this guy wants to ask me out tomarrow but i think i still love my ex what should i do tell the other guy no when he asks me or should i go out with him i like the both of them but the guys thats going to ask me out can be mean to me at times and over protective....what shall i do?
2007-01-24 13:18:33 · 11 answers · asked by mikki 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there's no reason why you can't go out with the new guy. don't worry, enjoy it.
2007-01-24 13:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. It's not right for him to treat you that way. But yeah, this could have been influenced by college. It's different when you start taking classes and then the future changes. College takes a lot of work, and during that time people can change their perspective in what they want to be. Because of all the work, that may be why he's putting everything else first. But then again maybe he's just looking for an excuse out. I'd say just move on. If he's gone as far as changing his goal and both of your futures', then he probably has plans to cut you from his life eventually - seeing as he's just pushing you away. If he's not going to change, there isn't any point in staying with him any longer. Also, it's not his business or his right to call you lazy or anything for finding a job, it's not his life. I don't see where he gets off saying that and telling you you're making excuses when you've been trying. Especially in these times, jobs are hard to come by. I'm sorry he just completely changed on you. But it's probably best for you to move on. Let him be and try to pursue his "goals", and hopefully he gets screwed over for treating you the way he is. I hope things work out for you.
2016-05-24 06:04:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm well I don't think you can use the word love in that context yet. I think its too powerful of a word in this scenario.
Well, for the guy that's going to ask you out, say that you will think about it, although you like him. Tell him that you like him but you have stuff on your mind.
Tell him what happened between you and your ex. Watch for the signals your ex gives you and if they aren't comforting, then ease your way to the other guy.
Is the OTHER guy worth it though? Try him out though if you want.
2007-01-24 13:25:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
p.i.m.p.i.n lol haha i have the same problem... well u gotta make up ur mind who ya wanna be with. ya gotta think "what if" what if ur ex doesnt want to go back out with u.. u better ask him 1st and as for the guy do u like him more then ur ex? do u like ur ex more then the new guy?? think about it...
goodluck
2007-01-24 13:25:25 · answer #4 · answered by Pookie! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see ... you LOVE your ex.
You LIKE this guy whose going ot ask you out. This is the guy who is MEAN to me and OVER PROTECTIVE.
Then you say you LIKE BOTH of them.
I'd say you don't know what you want nor do you know what love is. Do whatever you want.
2007-01-24 13:25:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him up with the news that you're reuniting with an old Friend. Do it, before he has the chance to ask you out. If he's any kind of Man. he'll back off.
2007-01-24 13:24:03 · answer #6 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart... :)
since the guy that wants to ask you out is mean to you even if you haven't been a couple, then its no good news.. it won't work to start with.
i think you know what you want.. you're saying something positive about your bf, and negative about the new guy. your heart knows girl, go for it! :)
mwuah! good luck! :)
2007-01-24 13:24:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lets see you should not go with that guy u should be back with your ex and work things out
2007-01-24 13:25:47 · answer #8 · answered by cookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think,If you still love your ex...you will say NO,thank you to the other guy.....
2007-01-24 13:23:34 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh a fickle fickle lady.
you have put yourself into quite a pickle.
but, put it this way, are you married?
in high school you shouldn't put yourself into a position that you cant date whoever you want whenever you want.
2007-01-24 13:24:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋