I like this chick?

Question

I dont want to sound like loser that cant figure **** out but i guess thats just what i am lol. Me and this chick dated threw highschool then she moved away. She ended up getting pregnent and haveing a kid. Im 21 now and she is 20 and her and her boyfriend moved back into the area. We always hang out while im home from college and we talk everyday. we say we love each other and all that stuff at first i was cool with just hanging out with her but now im not so cool with it. Im just wondering what i should do? I mean im really feelin this chick and i kinda broke off the relationship i was in because i thought this was going somehwere. The other day she said that her and her bf were talking about getting married and they were looking for a house to buy. I just dont know how to go about this situation

Answer 1

If she is committed to this guy enough to marry him then you need to let her make up her own mind. He is the father of her child and while you might be her first love her child should come first.

If you think she is sending you signals it may be a good idea to talk about the signals. Tell her actions confuse you and you would appreciate it if you could talk and lay down some ground rules.

If she truly loved you she wouldn't be with somebody else, you will be able move on once you have some certain from her.