I am in this relationship, for a year now and we live together but i cant stop thinking about my ex. My partner and i argue occasionally, and when my partner tells me to get f...d all i really want t do is to move back home and call my ex. I think i didnt really get over him but i dont know, sometimes i think why am i here but its so hard i am used to my bf and its hard to leave.....
2007-01-24 13:11:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is very common for people to dream about ex-partners. Individuals that have been an important part of our lives continue to take up a part of our mind and heart. It is impossible to very dramatically shut the person out of thoughts and feelings. Just because the relationship ends does not mean that all is finished. As we go through relationships we learn and at times pick up "battle wounds." You will continue to dream about your ex boyfriend until you "let go" of him on a very important level, or until you learned your lessons from that relationship. Either way, dreaming about your ex-romance does not predict future involvement. It may be wish-fulfillment, reliving memories, or working out old issues.
2007-01-25 05:27:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's something but normal to feel that way maybe because there was something impressive with your ex...but it doesn't mean also ...to hinder you from moving on.Treasure what good things you have in the past...but you have also to value your present relationship because it is where you gonna base the strong foundation of a happy and bright future. Move on...and be happy! You have every right to be happy my friend...and no amount of yesterday can hamper you in achieving it. God bless.
2007-01-24 13:30:21 · answer #2 · answered by dimma59 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you need to do is find your happiness. Forget about the old guy, there's a reason you two didn't last. The new guy is already there with you. Cherish him with all your heart, you never know how good someone is, until you lose them.(referring to new guy, not old)
2007-01-24 13:19:06 · answer #3 · answered by bubbless221 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
change is hard and sometimes we dont want to leave because we feel comfortable but you have to ask yourself are you really happy? if not get out of that relationship and move on with your life. and if he is telling you to get f'ed then you dont need him anyway
2007-01-24 13:21:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You still love him sweetie thats why you constantly think about him....
Dont feel bad I'm in the same boat.
2007-01-24 13:17:21 · answer #5 · answered by Wisdom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you still have unresolved feelings for him. You moved on, yes, but was it a rebound relationship? This is something only you can answer.......
2007-01-24 13:19:08 · answer #6 · answered by veronica c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋