went out with this girl i like last week and she said she likes me 2 but the whole night she never really spoke to me much just to her friend but then she started talking a lot when we were walking home together just me and her and her mum drove past and she turned down getting a lift home and walked home with me instead this tells me she wanted to spend more time with me but im getting mixed signals what do u think is going on in her head do u think she really does want me or not? btw she isnt very shy either (just before people say this is the reason for it)
2007-01-24 13:08:00 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe she didn't want to make her friend feel left out or like she "preferred" you over her. She just didn't balance it out very well, or if you and her friend don't know eachother, she didn't know how to include both of you.
2007-01-24 13:20:47 · answer #1 · answered by Chrissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey bro---every first date is a little awkward---if you date again try going somewhere interesting....or just accept that she and you will be around other people and you will socialize as if you weren't together. How about a meal and a movie? Go somewhere so you can talk and see how that goes..Don't worry, you won't always have these problems--it gets better. Practice your dating skills now so when you are driving and able to go places, a girl will find you to be an interesting date. Meantime, have fun and be cool
2007-01-25 00:04:49 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probally was warming up to u if this was ur first date. Sounds like with her friend there she didnt want her friend to feel uncomfortable and thus the not talking till later. I think she does like u and wants to spend more time just with her friend there threw you off. She walked home with you so I think its true she wanted to spend more time and get to know u better.
2007-01-24 21:14:50 · answer #3 · answered by webgemini2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She really likes you. You should step up your plate like, mess with her and make her have fun with you but don't take it to far.She would know that u are really interested in her, even tho u said u like her but every guy says that. You just need to prove it to her. Some girls take a while to get it because they been in relationships that wasn't good and they don't want to go through it again. You need to take it slow with her if you are looking for an long relationship with her.
2007-01-24 21:18:49 · answer #4 · answered by teryhotbod 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i personally think she was tryin to balance u and her friend the best advice is dont let ur boo (the girl that likes u) invite friends on date bcuz it is hard to not make u or her friend feel like one is way more important than the other or maybe she thought u were crazy and made her friend come for security or maybe she wanted her friend to coop u out see if u would be a good match for her
2007-01-24 21:18:09 · answer #5 · answered by Lady'Amor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's probably "afraid" to show her friends how she feels about you. That's why when you were alone she acted completely different...if you start a relationship and she still acts this way when her friends are around have a very serious conversation with her ( without souding piss*d of) and then you'll decide what to do from there.
2007-01-24 21:13:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she really likes you, but just finally opened up to you when you 2 were alone. That's a good sign. She was just a little nervous at first! Good Luck!
2007-01-24 21:17:11 · answer #7 · answered by S4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is a little more outgoing around her friend rather than around a guy
my friend is like that! 1 easy way 2 find out is just 2 ASK HER~!!! go 4 it! maybe she likes u SOOO much that she doesn't want her friend 2 know OR maybe she hadn't seen her friend in a LONG time~!!! i hope i helped u!â¥
2007-01-24 21:31:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she passed up a ride in front of her mom to be with you she loves you man
and look at her zodiac if its sagatarious id bet shell stay with you for the rest of your life
i dont know much else
about your storry but it sounds like she loves
you
as to why she wasnt talking to you
i dont know it was probably just the day
and if she had a rea (not bogus) conversation going with her freind
than it was just the day
walk with her as much as you can and see how she acts
i bet shel want to go out with you if she isnt allready
2007-01-24 21:15:26 · answer #9 · answered by mania's master 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's not used to dating a guy, so she's just a little nervous. She might just not be used to guys being into her. Sit down with her and ask her if shes into you the way your into her
2007-01-24 21:13:51 · answer #10 · answered by pookiebear24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋