i really dont want to have to find a new person to sleep with.and plus he's good . would i be using him!
2007-01-24 13:06:39 · 32 answers · asked by MRS.BLONDIE 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nothing wrong with It, wouldnt you rather screw somone you feel comfortable with than some stranger? If you have to get it from somwhere get it from somone who knows you and who you can trust instead of some random who has god knows what, and who could end up hurting you.
2007-01-24 13:16:04 · answer #1 · answered by vanessa m 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As long as you both agree that it's strictly for the sex, with no strings attached, then there's no issue. I've done it, and had no regrets. We didn't even talk to each other in public, just an occasional "booty call". Just make sure that you both agree to break it off if either of you finds a new lover, so things don't get complicated.
2007-01-24 13:12:18 · answer #2 · answered by Angela M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm beginning to believe that everyone who asks these sort of questions has lost their everlasting mind!! Why ask a question like that? Do you want permission to still sleep with him from us eventhough you broke up with him? Let's do a quick recap incase your brain can't function enough to see this
You two broke up>for reasons>that even sex coulnd't hold together. DUHHHHH just go buy a vibrator and be done with it or have sex who cares.
2007-01-24 13:12:39 · answer #3 · answered by perkadittle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you both would be using each other which cancels out the using part altogether.
I slept with my ex bf for over a year because I trusted him in that respect and I didn't want to worry about another relationship at the time.
When I did find someone else I quit being with him.
But it was convenient and we appreciated the ability to have each other around when needed.
2007-01-24 13:12:01 · answer #4 · answered by intewonfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you broked off with your man you shouldn't be sleeping with him then, even if he's good. that is using him and its not fair . would you like it if he was doing that to you. I really don't think you would. And you should do it when you care for someone, don't find a person just to have sex with. thats wrong. thats leading a man on.
2007-01-24 13:11:39 · answer #5 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To sleep with the man that you broke up with strictly for sex is wrong. Yes, it is using him.
Move on and find someone else.
2007-01-24 13:11:22 · answer #6 · answered by Juanitamarie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You would be using him but thats beside the point. Men cant wrap their brains around things like this. You'll totally confuse him. When you meet someone new he wont understand why you wont sleep with him anymore.
2007-01-24 13:11:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello-what are you thinking-hell no don't sleep with him! What if you get pregnant and have to deal with him forever? What about the rest of the hundreds of reasons why you shouldn't?
2007-01-24 13:20:01 · answer #8 · answered by Robyn K 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its only using him if it feels wrong. however as long as you and the ex can just be bed buddies without getting hurt i say go for it. an ex of mine and i did that basically he was a booty call until i found someone new and it worked out.
2007-01-24 13:11:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a train wreck, girl. Even I wouln't sleep with you.
I didn't realize I had standards, before.
2007-01-25 22:14:13 · answer #10 · answered by PartyTime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋