My husband is close to this female colleague n she complained to him that I am jealous of her. Why, why?

Answer 1

Because she likes him...be careful...when I was married, my husband had a female co-worker/friend who he spent time with.

I didn't mind, and I was not suspicious AT ALL about and affair, but then I started to pick up weird vibes from her and told my husband I didn't trust her. He said, If I trusted him, there was no problem. Then, he found out she was letting people think they were having an affair and he ended the friendship.

We ended up divorcing (for other reasons) and he was with her within 6 months of our split. I couldn't believe it. I still don't think he cheated on me with her, but he obviously had SOME feelings for her at the time we were married.

Answer 2

It could be things you say that are taken wrong. Or it might be the way you look at her when you see her, if you have any such contact. Then it could be that it is just a play to get him worked up about you not trusting him . Without more in depth info, hard to draw a decent conclusion.

I can read people real well and make sense of certain actions or esp during certain events. No way to contact you for more info so this is all I can do to try and help[

Answer 3

Are you? if not don't worry about it. Why would he tell you about it? Communication in a marriage is great but some things are only repeated to cause trouble. Ask your husband why he would want you to know that she thought you were jealous, maybe he wanted to make you jealous by telling you.

Answer 4

You contradict your self throughout your question. you assert you comprehend he isn't the type to flirt or have an affair yet you're jealous of his friendship, he's ordinary with you yet you think of you mustn't believe him. the place interior the guideline e book (by ability of how I even have on no account gotten my replica) does it say adult males can no longer have woman acquaintances and woman can no longer have male acquaintances. i for my area as a woman purely have male acquaintances. i detect woman to be to insecure with themselves and their relationships and it is often lots drama. you have a husband it particularly is ordinary and open with you he has a woman colleague as a pal. Be a solid spouse and invite her into your place for dinner who's well-known with you will be able to end of liking her additionally. i'm going to enable you comprehend this in case you preserve doubting your husband and enjoying the jealousy card you will push him away swifter than something and it would be your fault.

Answer 5

It sounds like this other woman is trying to drive a wedge between the two of you. Jealousy is a double edged sword and usually it ends up that both sides are hurt by this. He is your husband and you are his wife you have invested a great deal of time into your relationship. Trust him and make sure that he understands your concern and your love for him.

Answer 6

either you are or she is jealous of you and just doesn't want to own up to it. if you aren't it could be that maybe she likes your man more than a colleague. what i suggest is just one day pull her aside and ask her why she would ever say something like that. don't get all defensive or start yelling just keep your cool.

Answer 7

Always when someone get close to the one you love it gets a little touchy because you think that the other one is after what you have. that not always the case, He realy love you and if their was something going on he would of left you by now

Answer 8

If the shoe fits, well its time to talk this over with your husband and maybe get to the bottom of your feelings

Answer 9

Oh come on. You know this one. She's totally jelous of you. Enjoy it. Next time you run into her, give her that "oh, you poor thing" look. Don't say anything. Just give her the look, and shake your head. Then, walk away.
She'll get it.
Been there.

Answer 10

Well, only u yourself knows best. Unless u r, then have a good talk with your husband. If y r not, Y bother abt it.