Hi so ever since school started the boys at my school think its "fun" to bully me around and make me mad and cry and stuff. i'm not fat im not ugly and i never talk about people behind their backs its like i was voted "the untouchable one" i dont know how to handle them this one boy inperticular makes puking noises i think implying that im bulimic. I dont know what to do. ive started scratching because im afriad of knives and having serious thoughts of transfering schoools please please help
2007-01-24 12:55:42 · 3 answers · asked by notanotherblondchik4 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
its ok don't worry
first thing - please dont scratch yourself, it is the worst thing you can do because it means that the bullies are winning. also try to remember that you are a lovely person and that the people who upset you are sick minded bullies. they are low and selfish, so dont listen to them. i know it is hard but have courage. maybe moving schools isnt so bad, if it is making you really unhappy then you should consider it. tell someone if you can. i am so glad that you are afraid of knives, i really am, never ever try cutting yourself.
i know how hard it is, just stay strong.
remember if you ever want someone to talk to, i promise i will never judge you or tell anyone. i find talking to strangers helps me when i am struggling because you dont know them, so you cant feel embarrased or worried of them telling others, you dont even have to say your name or anything. i will always listen if you want to talk. i know what it is like to feel deppressed.
cute.littleangel@hotmail.co.uk
or you can text me
07791201339
all my love
god bless
chloe x
p.s dont feel you have to change to be accepted, losing weight or anything like that wont help. the last thing i want is for you to feel that if you change yourself the bullies will stop. the best thing to do is to show that you are better than that, let them think it doesnt affect you. you are perfect the way you are!
2007-01-25 01:29:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
they will feed off of your emotions. If you let them see that this really bothers you (crying, etc) they will only get worse. Next time tell them to f**k off and stop wasting your time, and walk away. Don't try to get revenge, because it won't make you any better. Do not scratch yourself with knives. God gave you an amazing gift, your body and your life... make it the best you can, work with it... not against it.
2007-01-25 16:29:12 · answer #2 · answered by britt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man, ur not alone. there are millions out there who are in the same situation and among them, is me. i get bullied too. ever since i liked this guy, the caveman friends started making really really mean things. they say im... ...anexrixic(im pretty sure i didnt spell it rite) then say im fat and other really mean htings like im ugly and stuff, really depressing actually. so when one these guys went to india. things settled a bit better. i mean i wasnt bothered as much. but today, he came bak to skool and i have been near crying already! like hes really mean, he excluded me like i feel really bad. i cant transfer skool cuz this is my last year in elementary and its like in the middle of second term. so yep. and like u, im scared of knives so, i started scraching a bit but i found putting elastics works better. so i started using them, until the guy i liked literally gave a whole on cutting circulation. then he literally took all my elastics. arrgh. i feel depressed. so think of it that way, UR NOT ALONE. THERE ARE MILLIONS OUT THERE WITH THE EXACT SAME PROBLEM!!!!
2007-01-25 19:17:32 · answer #3 · answered by Shmily P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋