in a relationship, when is enough enough for you? how much are you willing to put up with and deal with before kicking your bf/gf to the curb? i'm just trying to figure out if i'm there yet, and if i've been to lenient in the past.
2007-01-24 12:49:35 · 17 answers · asked by *KiM* 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
looking for legitimate thoughts...not bs
2007-01-24 12:54:52 · update #1
I would say, "Don't make someone a priority, when they see you as an option." If it gets to that point, its over.
2007-01-24 12:54:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I will put up with a lot of crap...but building up...if he is abusive--obviously.
Other than that...if he is disrespectful of me and our relationship...like staying out drinking until the bars close--I can forgive once but more than that without a phone call warrants a closer look.
If you feel you are being too lenient then it is probably time to get out. Set your standards for what you will and will not tolerate and stand by those regardless of the reasons or excuses. You will feel better about the relationship if you hold your ground. And you will have more respect for yourself as well.
2007-01-24 12:57:28 · answer #2 · answered by intewonfan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, in the past I have went way beyond any reasonable threashold even when I knew there was no other outcome, and things were doomed long before I either left or was dumped.
In retrospect, it's probably easier on your own ego to get out before the other does when there nothing left to save.
I hope, if I am ever in that situation again, that I have the sense to leave when I know that.
2007-01-24 12:59:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is a one and done deal. Trying to take over my life and preventing me from seeing my friends. Being unpleasent. Itf I may be blunt, if you have to question whether or not you should be with someone, dump them.
2007-01-24 15:45:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
when you dont feel the love, trust, security, safety and respect you once had, it may not be them all but maybe just one of them would be enough for me to kick my BF to the curb
2007-01-24 12:54:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When the time spent hurt is more than time spent feeling happy and loved. Remember if your b/f g/f is hurting you they are choosing to do so with the knowledge of what they are doing is hurting you. Why stay with someone that cares so little, that they know that they are going to hurt you and do it anyway,
2007-01-24 12:56:00 · answer #6 · answered by autumnbrookblue 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
the final straw usually occurs when there is a betrayal. few people are willing to put up with that.
2007-01-24 12:54:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no time is the better, do it now if your really fed up. why wait and prolong it. you deserve to be happy in your life and you don't need whats going on now. to me three strikes your out. go have some fun, that you deserve to have in life, instead of wasting your time. good luck.
2007-01-24 12:56:05 · answer #8 · answered by misty blue 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when you get to the point that you just really don't care any more was my clue.
when the crap out ways the good times.
when you are more miserable than you are happy.
when you are more worried over things than you are content with things.
2007-01-24 13:02:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is this guy giving you all the respect that you think you deserve? Is the way that he treats you a reflection of the way you think about yourself?
2007-01-24 12:55:13 · answer #10 · answered by hooky bobber 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋