it not big things(i hope) little thing like hideing letters, and telling me storey i knows not true! do you think he ill ,iv tryed to explain that i need to be able to trust him!i cant get it out of my head that if shes lyeing over little things what else has she lied about!should i dump her and cut my lossers.and dump him!
2007-01-24 12:32:36 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no its my girlfreind thank for your answers but it just shows how many woman will quickly jump on the mans back if they think its the male lieing or cheating.
2007-01-24 12:41:17 · update #1
well honesty is important in a relationship's. Maybe its just his personality to tell stories kinda like Sophia on golden girls. i would defiantly bring it to his Attn when he lies even if it is little. maybe he has a compulsive personalty when it comes to lieing. I would talk to him and say look dude i don't like the lieing and don't appreciate it. Tell him you can't go on like that anymore and either you stop with the lieing or your gonna have to break up with him. I don't blame u for wounding what Else he has lied about. I would probably think the same thing. Just talk to him and tell him to stop it or you gotta go.
2007-01-24 12:45:40 · answer #1 · answered by Matthew A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on if she is a he or wants someday be a he because you keep calling him a she. When a "HE" is called a she but he himself knows he is a he, HE may have problems thinking that you know that he is really a he that in time may want to be a she. I really think the question is this, if he becomes a she and doesn't lie to you anymore will you still love him as a himself or love him as her? She would probably like to know the answer to this. In saying this remember, If you would still love him as a her be prepared for him to be upset because he would probably think that you really wanted him to be a she in the first place and this was the only reason you went out with the future "SHE" . Either way you need to talk to her/him and get this all out in the open BEFORE he goes to have surgery to become a she. As far as the letters, don't worry about what he's getting, worry about what he's writing to her. I'd say you really should dump both personalities before either one ties into the theory that you have 2 or 3 yourself. Good luck!
2007-01-24 12:51:29 · answer #2 · answered by Wisco Joe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, Don't lose hope but one thing i would like you to know is that,if he is cheating on you it means that he have no more interest in you. So just go to him confidently and tell him that you cannot take it anymore because you are not a rug to be used and tossed around and never respected. You deserve your own peace of dignity. So step on your toe girl and act on what is wright. Remember if you are going to ruin some body's life by getting hurt, it will be you. So forget the past and move on. It is never too late for a new start.
2007-01-24 12:51:44 · answer #3 · answered by Sony 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
continue to go along with it...if you state the truth, you will be an outcast, ... Society is not that advanced in the US...do yourself a favor and keep it to yourself at this point in life. You do not need to be bullied, heckeled, and beaten up..that is exactly what will happen if you spill the beans. Remember, you wouldn't be just telling your friends, you would be telling everyone in your school. When was the last time you remember ANYTHING being kept a secret??????
2016-03-29 01:03:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you listen to Medea. She said tell him that what he is doing is hurting you and if you see him even trying to fix it, keep him around. That's a kind of person who wants to grow in to something. But if he not trying, dump his lieing *** and move on with your life.
2007-01-24 12:43:56 · answer #5 · answered by Brittany B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You keep changing the reference between a girl and a guy, so your question doesn't make sense. However, if someone lies to you on a regular basis, you shouldn't have ANY kind of relationship with them, period.
2007-01-24 12:36:09 · answer #6 · answered by daveowenville 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there like cheating going on...are you cheating on a guy for a girl or something...i mean seriously...u keep saying he and she...my advice: dump them both :D
2007-01-24 12:39:39 · answer #7 · answered by ☺Lisa☺ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think that u should dump them, because a relationship is suppose to
be truthful. man id rather go out wit sum one i trust. (but hey that's just me, but I'm just saying)
2007-01-24 12:41:09 · answer #8 · answered by my chemical romance is love =-) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm confused (and maybe you are too) - are you talking about a boyfriend or a girlfriend? Cause your post refers to a guy then a girl ?????
2007-01-24 12:37:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, is it a girlfriend or boyfriend, cause you called whomever both, and that is kind of weird. Look, check yourself, then post a new question, or just give him or her time.
2007-01-24 12:37:17 · answer #10 · answered by BATTLEFEAR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋