because I feel like the only one who has never had a boyfriend before.
2007-01-24 12:26:56 · 19 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey i am 16 and i have never had a boyfriend so don't feel awkward. you don't have until you are ready just because all of your friends have boyfriends doesn't mean you have to. Trust me boys are over-rated no matter how hot they are and they just will end up hearting people in the end. Just know that you can date when you are ready not when the world says your ready because what you think and what everyone else thinks are two completely different things. I hope that I answered your question.
2007-01-24 12:36:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I didn't have a boyfriend until I was 25. I married him 3 years later. You are only 14. Don't worry about it, you have a lot of time to date. At 14 you are too young to date anyway. Just relax and enjoy being a child. Have fun in high school and enjoy life. When the time is right you will have a boyfriend.
2007-01-24 12:35:40 · answer #2 · answered by LITTLE 1 :o) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is guys that are 23 and never had a significant other. I think it has alot to do with developing the right personalty to make yourself attractive to the opposite sex than anything else. Most people dont find the right person untill they are in their mid twenties. Maybe God(if you believe) doesnt want you to go from realtionship to relationship just to say you have someone. But even in that you still have a choice, so no you are not alone, by a long shot. Never rush it( i know that sounds redundant) if you do you could be getting someone that is a curse instead of a blessing to you....
2007-01-24 12:37:52 · answer #3 · answered by SonicCube123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not the only 14 year old that has never had a boy or girlfriend before. There is a whole world of people who are probably having the same "problem". I wasn't allowed to date boys until I was 14. Then I did get a boyfriend and it was so scary that I got a friend of mine to dump him for me 3 weeks later. lol. Just wait, be patient. As scary as it is, why don't you ask someone out? Try inviting a whole bunch of "couples" out to the movies or something and invite your crush but kind of single them out and spend your time with them. Ask them questions, find out what they're into and dazzale them with your knowledge. Be confident, smart and charming. Smile and laugh. Wear clean clothes and do your hair nice. Hopefully you can score yourself a boyfriend or girlfriend soon after. Good luck :)
2007-01-24 12:53:21 · answer #4 · answered by bee320 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My brothers gf sister never had a bf before and shes 16.
2007-01-24 12:33:34 · answer #5 · answered by Brittany B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just got a boyfriend 3 months ago and I am 15.........and he is my first! I didn't ever understand why anyone rushed to get a boyfriend or girlfriend. Haha!
2007-01-24 12:32:33 · answer #6 · answered by Kelli J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 17, and I've never had a real boyfriend. Not that I want one or anything. I'm just saying.
2007-01-24 12:31:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't have a boyfriend until I got to college, and he's definitely a keeper. So even though your friends might be with someone, it doesn't mean you won't find anyone.
2007-01-24 12:31:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 14 too..I'e had a couple BFs they were huge mistakes. Don't rush into anything..dating isn't as fun as it seems (it's actually kinda wierd)
2007-01-24 12:39:47 · answer #9 · answered by CandyQueen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i sort of had but it was for like 3 years but it was like from 4-7 so i can really say it was a real relashinship but no heaps of people haven't i take my self as one of those people.
2007-01-24 12:32:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋