Guy Problem.....?

Question

okay well there's this guy that i like...and my sister's boyfriend talked to him and the guy hinted at liking me...but he didn't know if i was interested....so what are some ways i can show him that i'm interested without telling him...i don't really know him all that well so i don't want to just ask him plus i'm kinda shy and get embarrased easily...serious answers only..i need help

Answer 1

Talk to him and ask him

Answer 2

Just start talking to him as a friend and throw in a little flirting, you know, catch his eye and smile or wave. After you get to the point where you two are both kind of comfortable with each other, you can start playfully touching him (as in your hand lightly over his shoulder or cheeks...nothing sexual) while you two are joking around. Don't keep up this act for too long, cause he'll lose interest and move on.

Answer 3

awe.. sweet!

ask your sister/sister's boyfriend to set up a double date - if you don't want them to call it a date - you could just say you want to hang out in a group. That's one of the best ways to find out about the guy and know whether you'd like to know him further because there's no "pressure". Maybe something like a sporting event or games night or something where all of you get to know each other. Taboo is an awesome game for that too!

A dinner and movie is ok, BUT... at the movie, you don't get to know much about the person you're with. It's best to do something together.

Good luck to you & I hope it works out for the best :)

Answer 4

Well there's either the "liason" approach or the round-about kind of way. If you are friends with him or even slight friends just start by talking to him about whatever, the local ambiguous sports team, school, life, him...guys like that. There's also the "liason" approach where you get one of his friends and one of your friends to start repeating things they say about you or they just ask them about you which it seem your sister's b/f did. The best way (depending on your grade level) is to see when the next dance is and ask if he is going. Get to talking and see if he asks you to it.

The best way always is just to go up and ask him face to face, but being shy that may hinder that chance. So, through my wall of text let's review...
1) Get to be friends with him - it may take the most time but then you know things about each other and the 1st date won't be that awkward silence.
*NOTE - try not to become too much like a friend, then he may see you as one, and not g/f material!

2) Ask him to the dance or get him to ask you to the dance - probably the quickest and easiest way to get him to like you depending on the time of the dance.
*NOTE - if he isn't going to the dance or has already asked someone out...backfires.

I hope this can help you in your crushes.
Love,
L. Kolsky

Answer 5

just spend time with him, show SOME love, and get close, and maybe at the end of convos, just say a loveoyuuu, like u no,
oh and flirttt;] and wen ur in the hall ways, just say hi with a smile and stuff and talk to him, and if u didnt see him for a long time, a hug wont hurt ;] trust me, it worked for me

Answer 6

Just be yourself. When you see him say hello and if you have the chance talk with him...about music, tv shows, movies etc. just don't be too over bearing. Make it short...an excuse and leave. Don't hang on him, that way if he is interested he will come to you. Never chase him.

Answer 7

maybe you could ask him if he wanted to hang out with u at the mall or go to the movies with u then when hes sees the real u and how u act around him on thing will lead to another and u guys will eventually be dating!

good luck with him

Answer 8

Do you trust the person who gave you the information? If so, Strike up a conversation with him, or just say hello. Be sure to smile.

Answer 9

Next time you see him make it a point to connect at the eyes and smile and mouth the word "hello". So mysterious and exciting if he really does like you.

Answer 10

if you werent shy i would say do what my x fiance did after a month of waiting. she kissed me good bye after a date and slipped the tounge.(this was our third or fourth date and she was getting pissed that i hadnt asked her) so since your shy get him out to a movie and kiss him on the cheek good night?

Answer 11

smile a lot and play with your hair and sit on his lap if you get the chance and just talk to him about stuff. there's nothing wrong with just telling him either, write him a note.