Well there is this guy that I really like but I am not totally sure that it is mutual but i think so so i want to honestly tell bhim to a piont where it isnt weird but just in case he doesnt like me how do I make it ok
2007-01-24 12:09:29 · 10 answers · asked by V 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get a friend to tell him. Or get one of his friends to find out how he likes you
2007-01-24 12:16:17 · answer #1 · answered by Kim p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him when he is "alone" so that any rejection can be between you and him, and explain that you like him and find him attractive and you want to move into a closer relationship with him. Being honest and direct is the BEST way to do it. Too many time, girls(no offense) will give subtle hints that they like a boy when they should just be upfront and direct. Most guys dont respond too quickly to subtle jesters, and sometimes they can be missinterpreted to mean something else. Just talk to him alone over a meal(applebees, movies, bar, whatever) and tell him that you want more than just a friendship, if he says no then the rejection will be between the two of you and there will be clear understanding where you both stand at the moment, if he says yes then when you asked him, and where you asked him can be your first date...good luck....
2007-01-24 12:18:58 · answer #2 · answered by SonicCube123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-01 05:09:44 · answer #3 · answered by mosesjr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a hard subject to cover for the meer fact that if he doesn't feel the same then your relationship may no longer be the same. But on the other hand if he feels the same then it could be the start of something special.
2007-01-24 12:16:52 · answer #4 · answered by ben27hernandez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it in steps. Start by telling him, "You know, I really like you". The next time, say it with a little more feeling. Then if you think he's feeling you, hit him with something like, "I'd like to go out with you and see if we can be more than just friends"? And then ask what he thinks of your suggestion. Come on, Woman Up, dammit!!!
2007-01-24 12:13:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to find out if he is interested in you as more than a friend, but just in case he isn't, you don't want your own interest to make him uncomfortable, right? Hmmm....if you ask him to do something that couples do, like go dancing, then you will know if he wants to go in that direction or not. Or you could simply ask, "Do you like me as a friend or as a girlfriend?"
2007-01-24 12:19:34 · answer #6 · answered by sonOman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. Face it; either you want to get with this guy, or you want to be friends. If you want to get with him, but he doesn't reciprocate, why would you want to stay friends? Better to be friends with those who want to be friends, and date those who want to be dated.
That doesn't mean you shouldn't ask; it just means that, if you're serious about moving up to this, commit to it -- and be willing to walk away if he doesn't feel the same way.
What good is a relationship without having to take a risk for it, anyway?
2007-01-24 12:16:36 · answer #7 · answered by daveowenville 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes, you can`t tell a guy you like him w/o ruining the friendship.
it`s a risk, definately. but is it worth taking ?
only you know the answer =) good luck !
2007-01-24 12:15:58 · answer #8 · answered by Taylor. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him straight up. he probably feels the same way. good luck
2007-01-24 12:14:59 · answer #9 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't bother. he doesn't like you. he told me.
2007-01-24 12:15:40 · answer #10 · answered by Chuck_Spears 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋