I was at this party the other night and my girlfriend tells me she doesnt like me, that im not good enough, and that were over. I was very upset and was about to leave but i decided to sit down for abit, and this other girl kissed me and i didnt stop it. My girlfriend found out and now she sais we cant even be friends and she doesnt want to even see me. i dont see why she cares if she doenst even like me. And what bugs me more is that i did so much for her and im not even sure if she appreciated it anymore.
2007-01-24 12:05:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to her and tell her
2007-01-24 12:09:55 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not. Its a shame that your girlfriend broke up with you at a party, not alot of tact on her part. She didn't care if you went the whole night feeling bad. I don't she is worth your friendship. She probably thinks the grass is greener on the other side. I know you did alot for her, but I think YOU are the better person here. Somebody will come along, and I'm sure they will appreciate you alot. Hope this helps. P.S. Don't worry about her.
2007-01-24 20:18:34 · answer #2 · answered by CURTIS TERI C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think you in the wrong at all and that she is a stuck up and selfish but beyond that point she probally had the impression that you were a jerk becasue you didnt even wait an HOUR before moving on so that was kinda wrong on your behalf so i guess the shorst and the long of it is
You may seem like a jerk for doing it....you were totally in ythe right and she needs to justget over it
Kinda like irreplacable except your a guy
2007-01-24 20:12:02 · answer #3 · answered by Michi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex-girlfriend had no claim on you after she broke up with you at the party. You were free to kiss whomever you liked. She doesn't want you but she doesn't want anyone else to have you either. Move on and find someone who appreciates you.
2007-01-24 20:12:22 · answer #4 · answered by Bethany 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No your not the only bad one here, but she probably still cared alot about you which is why she says now you can't even be friends. She was hoping for you to change but now you don't have to worry about that anymore.
2007-01-24 20:10:59 · answer #5 · answered by christinedaae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude iv been in ur situation b 4 talk to her appologize and just convesate with her . im not saying it wus rite for u to kiss that girl but if she broke up with you i guess she wanted it to be over. if u really like her u wont b able to get her off ur mind same thing is happened wit me
2007-01-24 20:13:22 · answer #6 · answered by thelastone26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would she care if someone else kisses you ? werent u on a break??? get over that find a girl who wants u for u
2007-01-24 20:10:04 · answer #7 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didnt do anything wrong....she said alot of hurtful stuff to you and broke up with you. After all that you are free to do anything you want with who ever you want. FU*CK that B*I*Tch. you dont need her as a friend
2007-01-24 20:11:27 · answer #8 · answered by texas_krystle_23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you did the right thing to me. good for you.
have a good one. hope the new lady works out.
2007-01-24 20:09:54 · answer #9 · answered by KRIS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hav e been through this b4. wut u need to do is give her sum alone time to cool down then talk to her to straighten evrything out.also find out why she got mad at you for the kiss and find out why she didnt appreciate evrything u did 4 her
2007-01-24 20:13:06 · answer #10 · answered by Matt M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋