Is it bad to be a sensitive guy?

Question

I hear a lot about how a guy who shows his feelings isn't attractive to women but then they also say they want a sensitive guy.

Answer 1

I hate to admit it, but I finally left my husband after many years because he had a lot of trouble expressing his feelings ... and I grew very tired of it, to the point where I felt like we no longer had anything in common. Well, maybe we did, but who in the heck knew, because he never knew what he thought or felt about much.

Answer 2

When we say we want a sensitive guy, we mean thoughtful,(remembers to call, but not 10 times a day), some one who will listen when we talk, some times gals just want to complain a bout a difficult day, but we don't really want you to give advise, just let us vent a few minuts, you can just nod, and say,"oh yea thats too bad", we don't want you to get emotional, by saying things like,"then just quit if your job,class, whatever the problem is,", When we say emotional, it's the guy who is too jealous, or has a bad temper, or whinny. Hope that clears up the difference on how men and women define emotional, verses sensitive.

Answer 3

I don't like a punk, but I do like a guy who can show and express his sensitive side. That playing hard all the time gets old. It's a turn on when a guy can really feel you pain and be able to show you how to over come pain.

Answer 4

ok if you are REALLY sensitive like all emotional then yea. but if you are just an open and nice guy that isn't afraid to share whats on his mind or in his heart then no.

don'tlisten to any lil girls they don't know what they're talking about. WOMEN want a guy that is like that. not too emotional though. we want an even balance, a guy who is a strong and sensitive in all aspects of life.

Answer 5

There is a diffence between sensitive to a woman's emotions...and there is a difference with a man being too much of a *****...to be the ideal guy for a woman a man needs to know that he needs to fall in the middle of sensitivity and *****...

Answer 6

Sure, we all want a sensitive guy. But, to a certain extent. Not so sensitive that you gush about everything and get extremely emotional all the time. Just a guy that can express himself and feel that they are comfortable.

Answer 7

no its not bad but there is a line that should not be crossed, thats my opinion. show emotion and that you love someone by doing something so heart tugging that it would make them want to cry over the memory, but in a good way. try not to be too sensitive, or the other person could get bored or even tired of it.

Answer 8

Yes they do want a sensitive man - but don't forget that only typically means about "certain" things. Women want a man these days who is dominant, but they also want a male who can understand them/better yet feel for them when she needs him. This is a fine line kiddo. You need to learn/understand/assist your baby. First and foremost she is number one. On certain occasions women love if every woman in the bar/clubs wants her man. Only if those ladies realize "he" is out of their limits. Be careful with the games kiddo. Read your baby and know what line to follow...:)>

Answer 9

Sensitive is good, but only where I am concerned. He must be a strong, rough, "man's man" with the rest of the world and be protective.....but not to the point of being a jealous control freak, with me.

Size 12 cowboy boots are a big plus.

Answer 10

I love sensitive guys!! They seem to be able to relate to woman better. Most guys put up this macho attitude that is only attractive to them, girls like to be understood and listened to, and I have found the only way to get that is through a sensitve man!!