hi....is it acceptable to come onto the woman on the first date? if not....when on the date should i "go for the kill". shall i just offer to do it in the restaurant toilet or is that a turn off? shall i wait till we are outside the restaurant? also i have heard women like men who are prepared so shall i show her my condoms or is that a turn off as well????
2007-01-24 11:54:39 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It really depends. Do you want to see her again, or just have sex? Make a move for a good night kiss if you'd like to have another date. If you don't care, invite her back to your place afterward, and kiss her in the car before you even get back to your place. Do NOT show her your condoms. That's tacky, and you probably won't even make it through the date. Have them, just in case, but do not show them. ever.
2007-01-24 11:59:00 · answer #1 · answered by halie_blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude how old are you. I was a player for a long time before i met my wife and ill tell you! If you do any of the things that you listed above you will be having sex with your self.
You don't show her that you are prepaid. you just make sure that you are prepared. really dude you want the secret to getting laid on the first date. BE COOL!!! AND RESPECTFUL!!!
Don't act like all you want is to have sex be funny have fun and flirt but BE COOL!!
then you have to be ready for subtle clues that women give unless you are with a women who knows what she wants and will ask and they're those women out there too.
If you are with a woman and it is getting hot take it slow let her lead a bit but not too much.
MOST important if she says stop STOP!!! BUT BE COOL! and KIND.
I'll tell you i have had a lot of women say it is getting late and that i should go home and then when im in the parking lot i get a call to come back up. plus there is always tomorrow and if you show just a little class you might get it straight the next day.
REMEMBER women can smell desperation and it turns them off they like confidence but they hate cocky.
All i can say is BE COOL!! women are hard to read and they are diff-rent so these are just a few rules and there are more but i hope that helps. it did for me Take care elman
2007-01-24 12:13:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
For many women this is a HUGE turnoff. It almost seems like everything you did on the date was to pay for the sex afterwards. If you really just want the fun at the end you should search for a singles site with people looking for "buddies." That way you'll both get what you want. Check out yahoo groups.
2007-01-24 12:02:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow....Ok, I would not recommend coming on to a woman on the first date, she's gonna think that you're only with her to get in her pants. Get to know her for who she is. Not to say that it's a bad thing to carry condoms with you but again, it's saying, I'm only in it for the sex. She'll give you signs to let you know when it's the right time to move to that step in the relationship.
2007-01-24 12:01:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Um...slow down there tiger. Do you just want sex or a relationship or both? If you are just looking for sex versus a real relationship then don't bother with the dating scene...you'll just waste your money as you can easily save the money and hassle by picking up women at bars who are out there looking just for sex only/one night stand type things as there are plenty of women out there looking for the same thing. If you are looking for the best of both worlds - the relationship and sex...take it slow and follow her cues...last thing you want to do is scare off the girl of your dreams by whipping out a wad of condoms to impress her. At least you are using them...or prepared to show them off anyway! ; )
2007-01-24 12:05:16 · answer #5 · answered by chick33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the woman in question...If she's just up for a bit of fun then you will just 'know'...If not i wouldn't insult her by showing her your condoms lol...that would be a turn off
2007-01-24 11:59:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to be really dumb and immature. Do it in the restaurant's toilet? Do you think she can wait that long?
I did it on the restaurant table itself. And what an ovation we received!
Try it.
2007-01-24 15:34:21 · answer #7 · answered by wisdom tooth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Show her your condoms but only if you want a glass of wine over your head or her to walk out and leave you with the bill.
2007-01-24 11:59:12 · answer #8 · answered by Closed Down 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd take her for at least 2 or 3 dates and then subtly ask her if she'd like to come back to yours for a coffee.
2007-01-24 12:07:30 · answer #9 · answered by serephina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're not sure what to wear, and you're not sure when you should come on to a woman, i'll make it real simple for you.... turn up for the date wearing just the condom, that way she'll know exactly what you're expecting....
but please, let us know which restaurant you'll be going to... i for one would love to have a ring-side seat for the beating you're likely to get...
and if you're actually being serious, dress nicely, act nicely and pay attention to her... sex will come around when she's ready, but, judging by your question, i'd recommend a monastary for you
2007-01-24 15:46:30 · answer #10 · answered by Graham M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋