Hello all,
So...I just have some real prolems in relationships with girls and thus I hate them...more and more with every day.
If it doesn't stop...I will probably become a serial killer of women :).
I hate them but I don't want to do so...you know the feeling that something eats you in the stomach.
Should I become gay?
Why is this?
2007-01-24 11:54:16 · 37 answers · asked by Bobi G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What is wrong with them in your mind?
2007-01-24 11:57:32 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can not "become" gay firstly. Secondly, the world of us girls and women is naturally confusing to men. We too get this idea of men being stubborn, egotistical, and sometimes heartless. But the way I see it, no matter how confusing one gender is, you can't live with out the other. It takes time. Maybe you think there's no hope or something, but it's ok. That serial killer thing will get you thrown in jail and I doubt you want that, alot of "stuff" can happen there.
It takes time, you just seem to be frustrated by the way that you can't understand girls at the first glance, that is what makes it fun. There never was anything wrong with a challange. You don't hate them you hate that they are hard to decipher.
2007-01-24 12:00:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm... I don't think you can BECOME gay just by wanting to. Or is that how it works? Sorry, I'm rambling.
I can't tell you how to prevent relationship problems, because we all face them at one point in time. There are some things to keep in mind, though:
Are you looking for a serious or casual dating experience? A serious relationship will have different types of problems than that of casual relationships because the types of people who enter a serious relationship are different than those of the other.
Also, you can't give up. I know you're sick of women by now having to endure all that pain, but if you give up now, how will you be able to find a meaningful relationship with anyone?
And men have JUST AS MUCH angst as women, so it's not easier to go the other way.
Just try to keep in mind that not everyone is the same. Not every woman will wind up hurting you, and not every woman WANTS to hurt you. So keep an open mind/heart, ok?
Good luck! Don't lose hope :)
2007-01-24 12:51:48 · answer #3 · answered by calamityjanedoe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is most likely resentment, I went through the same thing as you for a good eight years, now I have found a woman that even when we get into fights, I dont resent her. It all has to do with experience and the kind of women you are with. It does not mean you need to be gay or that you will become serial killer
2007-01-24 11:58:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, people don't "become" gay. If you weren't born gay, you'll never be gay. However if you are gay perhaps that would explain (partially) your digust with women...you may have been trying too hard to be something you are not (hetero).
Next, to feel as strongly in a negative way as you say you do, is unhealthy. Seek counseling (seriously). My guess is you've allowed one or two females to really get under your skin, and thus now you've decided you can't stand the whole 3+ billion of us on the planet. That kind of thinking is dangerous and just not balanced.
Good luck in getting beyond this and coming back to the fun world of men and women. ☺
2007-01-24 11:59:34 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, if you have had bad relationships in the past, put them behind you. You sound as if you have a real hatred of women because of this, and this is not healthy for you. You should never have these feelings! My advice is to speak with a couselor about your feelings, and explore why you have them and what you can do to solve them. You are either gay or straight so I am assuming that that comment was not sincere, if it was, that is NOT the answer! I hope you straighten out your feelings and find someone that makes you trully happy!
2007-01-24 12:01:14 · answer #6 · answered by reneestoy1978 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
need more info...why do you hate girls? whats wrong with us? your asking us if you should become gay? lol that's funny that someone would change there life based on YA ...my God if you are attracted to men be gay if not stay single the rest of your life I don't really care why should i when you hate females and thinking about becoming a serial killer of us?! You need help
2007-01-24 12:00:45 · answer #7 · answered by texas_krystle_23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you don't just become gay over night! You either are gay or you are not gay! by the sounds you are gay! I would definately not become a serial killer, I would consider your feelings towards guys definatley! if you hate girls you are not heade on the right direction for dating them. Good luck
2007-01-24 12:00:32 · answer #8 · answered by Tigerluvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow why is it that you hate girls so much? is it because of all the things they do OR is it because of what they've done that affected you? if your reason is the first, then your sexual preference is obvious. but if your reason is the second, then you just gotta get in straight into your mind that everyone is different. you'll find the right girl trust me. BUT? wow on the other hand, we got a serious problem here. you are thinking about being a serial killer. AND? on top of that, if you are NOT gay, please stay the way you are. you live for yourself, a man's got his balls & his words & he doesn't break them for anybody, that's if you're BORN straight. but if you feel that you're not. do what you want.
2007-01-24 12:02:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u hate girls, this is the question: do you like being with guys, do you feel more confortable being surrounded by men? If so, then youre probably gay, if not, then its just a psycological problem because of bitches treating u badly. I use to think that men were all the same: assholes, because most of them were just interested physically and not emotionally. But then I realized I was wrong, 'cause I met the man of my life, and he proved me wrong. So I suggest you to calm down and wait, to see if someone appears in yourlife and makes u feel butterflies in your stomach and stuff like. If not, don't turn gay just because u hate girls, 'cause most gay people like to be surrounded by girls, ok? I hope i helped, good luck =)
ps: dont kill us, your mother gave birth to u, she's a girl, would u kill her?
2007-01-24 12:13:10 · answer #10 · answered by Einnavi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look within yourself and try to determine why these girls are not being good to you.
Are you Fugly?
Are you a complete A hole?
Are you very fat?
Are you rude?
If ALL the womens are treating you bad then you probably need to do some self evaluation and change some things about yourself.
Now if you are all hung up on one girl and she won't give you the time of day. Kill the b*tch.
2007-01-24 11:59:39 · answer #11 · answered by trichbopper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋