people are treating me like crap and the reason is because there this guy that asked me out and i said no and so he tells his friends to call me name's i don't understand boys here call me a f word and then they ask me out and i say know then they start rumors about me and i try to tell ppl but they don't belive me,im not gay they keep thinking i am and they touch me and everything what should i do?
2007-01-24 11:43:41 · 36 answers · asked by Terry l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hun, you should definately tell someone that you can trust, maybe even a counselor. snitching may seem like a punkish way, but this is serious and you shouldn't ever feel like crap, know that whoever you are, you are worth something. guys are simple sometimes and imiture, and when they don't get there way, they act like asses. there is everyone for somebody, so don't feel bad. guys sometimes do simple things when they like you, guys are just weird period, but not all of them. i hope that everything works out, and you are worth something...much love :)
2007-01-24 11:51:23 · answer #1 · answered by music ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you are dealing with a kid, so what can you expect? Second of all, he is probably hurt and feels rejected because you didnt go out with him. The way he is reacting just shows how mean spirited and selfish he is. Its a good thing you rejected him, if he would of became your boyfriend he would probably use you and then dump you because of his selfish attitude. Dont pay this guy any attention, if it gets to bad, tell an administrator or teacher and forget about it and move on. When the day comes for you to graduate all together from grade school, you probably wont even be able to recall this harrasement, so i would just say, report it and move on.
2007-01-24 11:52:08 · answer #2 · answered by SonicCube123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's angry cus u rejected him and he feels humiliated cus he cant stand the fact that a pretty girl like u didn't wanna go out with him. If they touch u that is totally not exceptable and u need to report them and u have every right to hit them self defense. If I was u I would be the crap out of them cus the day a guy touches me like that ohhhhh he gonna get it. Don't let him and his freinds push u around they are sour losers
2007-01-24 11:53:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys in school can be mean.That just means that they are insecure immature jerks.They put others down to build up their own egos. It is hard to get through each day putting with that kind of crap, I know. You just have to ignore them and try to find a way to get thru each day. Some day you will graduate and it will seem like time went by soooo fast. But right now it doesn't seem that way...
2007-01-24 11:51:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They should never touch you! You should tell someone about that, that's not on. Tell your teacher if your in school or even tell the police because it's harassment. They are bullying you and you should put a stop to it. I think they feel rejected and embarrassed because you said no, but what do they expect when they act like that! If you want to avoid it, just tell them that you are already seeing somebody who lives in another town. You have to sort them out though, they can't touch you.
2007-01-24 11:49:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why thats.... hard. Well their all jerks and i went through the same thing but it passed. Its cool that he built up the curedge to ask u out but its not right for him to say things about u just because u said no, when i ask someone out he cant allways expect them to say yes and u have to exept no. And its really wrong for him to tell his friends stuff about u and making fun of u! he sounds like a jerk just please try to egnore it once they see you not doing anything about it they will most likly leave u alown. BUt if u have allready tried that and it dident work just get some good friends to support u and surround u (not litterly but to support u thats what i mean) anyways just believe in ur self not in them. There all so jerks they probally dont even notice it, u think their **** and thats ok. Trust me its normal and be glad u said no !
-josie <3
2007-01-24 11:59:23 · answer #6 · answered by Josie H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're being sexually harassed by a gang of classmates, and that's illegal.
Write down EVERYTHING this group of boys does or says to you, the date it happens, the time of day, who did it, and who witnessed it, and report it to your school's authorities. Also, tell your parents.
This is wrong, and it shouldn't be allowed to happen. You are not a chattel, and you are not obligated to date every boy who "fancies" you under threat of punishment and psychological assault if you refuse.
2007-01-24 11:51:42 · answer #7 · answered by Guernica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk up to him when he is by other people and tell him the only reason you are saying I'm gay is because I turned down a loser like you
2007-01-24 11:48:14 · answer #8 · answered by zen522 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dont give any atention to them this is their problem maybe they are and pretend not being ... live your life and dont think at them there are a lot of people that have speacial feelings hurting others...they will pay som,e day dont worry...you could ask a friend of yours pretending to be your girlfriend:)a pretty one ..if you dont have one for the moment or you could modify some pictures and put them on iunterrnet ,,, picturs showing that they are gay or retard not you!
2007-01-24 11:56:28 · answer #9 · answered by sweetnightmare 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are not allowed to touch you or disrespect you. If you are in school, speak to the principal at once. If you are out of school, speak to the police immediately. Keep your cool but show that you are not putting up with harassment, nor should you have to.
2007-01-24 11:49:27 · answer #10 · answered by Imogen Sue 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋