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Okay there is this guy and he is reaalllllllllllly cute and he likes my friend Alex. I have been doing the whole smile and eye contact thing and (sorta) talking to him. Anyway lately it seems he has been kind of rubbing off of alex he still flirts ALOT with her and talks to her wayyy more than me but he is turning around in class to talk to me now. How do I get him to start to like me more? From this does it sound like he is maybe starting to like me? please help me I really like this guy the cool thing is, is that I think he is a Cancer and I am a pisces

2007-01-24 11:31:18 · 19 answers · asked by *Madison 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

Alex does not want to date him AT ALLLLLL

2007-01-24 12:10:32 · update #1

19 answers

When you are young and in school there is nothing you can do to force anyone to like you that will not give you a bad reputation! Just be yourself, if he likes you he likes you. Looks are not everything and you will learn that the hard way throughout your life. Good luck!

2007-01-24 11:37:30 · answer #1 · answered by Tigerluvr 6 · 0 0

sounds to me like you did all the right things. Now try a little flirting. not big just little. You can try something like you know your looking really hot today. Or i could go for a guy like you. So your not really saying him but like him. Just remeber after you say it to blow it off and talk about something else or to someone else. Always play it cool. Your realing him in and doing a good job

2007-01-24 19:40:13 · answer #2 · answered by Shelly t 6 · 0 0

Okay, let me give it to you straight!...It's time for you to grow up and realize that guys don't like girls the way girls like guys. Meaning, boys are usually not looking for a steady girlfriend to have a life-long relationship with. That's why they flirt and try to be playas and stuff. Unless you're like Britney freakin' Spears or Beyounce, you'll have a tough time trying to keep a boy interested in you unless you're paying him or something. Just be cool, have fun with him and don't expect anything serious just yet. If he really likes you, he'll make a move to let you know. Just don't hold your breath, mmkay?

2007-01-24 19:35:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Keep smiling and doing the eye contact thing, talk to him more, start the conversations, keep it simple like oh i like your shirt or ur look cute today. When u have the small talk down ask him for his phone number.

2007-01-24 19:37:32 · answer #4 · answered by Angelina A 2 · 0 0

well first of all what does your friend alex think of this crush you have? Does she like him? I know that it sounds weird but the best way to make a guy like you is to keep your cool around him and make yourself seem busy and unavailable. sometimes when guys think you like them because you are too obvious they act aloof and take advantage.

just be yourself...dont act too desperate and he will come to you
Good luck

2007-01-24 19:35:50 · answer #5 · answered by LAURA 3 · 0 0

the cancer and pisces thing was cute but try flirting with him more and making it a bit more obvious u like him

2007-01-24 19:35:18 · answer #6 · answered by Shawn A 2 · 0 0

Cancer and Pisces, hmmm.

For your first date, you definitely need to go out for some seafood.

2007-01-24 19:44:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

well he's paying more attention to you so that's really good, but i wouldn't try anything too soon because if he recognizes it as really heavy flirting (some boys can't tell heehee) he may tell you to back off b/c of alex

2007-01-24 19:36:20 · answer #8 · answered by shannonleigh 2 · 0 0

i would try to find out some stuff about him his likes, dislikes, hobbies that kind of stuff. then try to strike up a conversation about something he has interest in. for example if you find out he likes hockey or baseball, basketball, etc., ask does he like any pro teams, has he ever seen any pro games, it could start up a conversation and he'll start to realize you have an interest in him.

2007-01-24 19:36:28 · answer #9 · answered by g 1 · 0 0

The best thing to do,
would be to,
pretend not to be as intrested,
but in a way,
act like you are.
But remember that,
if he asks out your friend,
dont be mad,
it is not her fault at all!

2007-01-24 19:35:39 · answer #10 · answered by lildude43277 1 · 0 0

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