Hiya,i`ve now decided that tomorrow is going to be the first day of the rest of my life,my ex walked out for the 2nd time 3 weeks ago and left me a single mother at 24,i`ve been heartbroken but decided enough is enough i can`t carry on wanting him to come back because in all honesty he made my life a misery,stayed out all weekend partying and taking drugs,never spent any quality time with our 4 year old who has learning difficulties.He`s obviously getting on with it so i am to and maybe one day i`ll find someone who will treat me and my son with some respect and love.
Also want to thank every1 who has answered my previous questions or rantings more like,so thank you,wish me well for tomorrow and the days after,xx
2007-01-24 11:30:06 · 26 answers · asked by onlyme 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good luck hun, it will be hard in the beginning and you will miss him and want him back and all the good times will start creeping into your mind, but you need to really try to concentrate on the bad bits and that will help you through.
It will get easeier with time and who knows Mr Right may be just around the corner.
Good Luck with the future for you and your child.
XX
2007-01-24 18:28:34 · answer #1 · answered by lisalou1970 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll be fine! I did the same thing years ago. I actually wasn't even fighting with my ex when I left him. I just woke up one day and decided for things to improve I had to take charge. He went to the pub and when he got home Me and our 6 week old daughter were gone...Funniest thing was though we actually lived at MY Mums house at the time!!! That's right I left him living at mums and I moved out!!! All I had was an empty flat that I rented that very morning and a bag of stuff (nappies, formula, clothes) for my baby. I sat on the floor and looked around and actually can say it was one of the happiest moments of my life. Friends rallied and strangers help with what they could. Now 11 years latter I am happily married to the most wonderful man you could ever meet. I wont lie and tell you its the easiest thing to do but it definitely is the best. (bit like child birth!) I hope you and your son walk away and never look back...Great things will come to you if that's what you really want to happen! Believe in your strength and go for better things...
Above all........GOOD LUCK.......
2007-01-24 19:43:06 · answer #2 · answered by blahblahblah 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is just stressing you out by the way he is acting which is not fair on you or your child
You are right - get rid of him once and for all
Good luck and I do hope that you find someone in the future that will not only respect and love you but also raise your child as theirs xx
2007-01-24 19:38:51 · answer #3 · answered by toon_tigger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck, best wishes. lets hope everything turns out perfictly for you and your son.
remember that your guy was one of the rotters of the world (to be polite), there are some of us great guys left, you just have to search high and low for us or wait until a great guy approaches you. which I'm sure they will just be ready and open to any advances thet may come your way.
I too decided to try and turn my life around this year not got the worry of your life. but i got health problems to work throug and retrain my brain with a few new tricks and skills.
take care, if you ever want an impartial ear or should that be eye, feel free to email me via my profile.
2007-01-24 19:45:14 · answer #4 · answered by thebestnamesarealreadytaken0909 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am with blahblahb... on this one I wish you luck and there's more I ask our father God in the name of Jesus Christ to bless you and your son that you ask him to lead you to the right man and I know he will becausee hes the son of the great I Am and you cant do better than that becaus at 67 years of life I have done every thing wrong that a man can do and then some but I still go on trying to learn his way of doing things much better than mine or any one El's and in the end you will find out no one knows better what you need than him that is the great I Am and his Son Jesus Christ Amen it is so. yours in J. C. peter william lack.
2007-01-24 20:10:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good Luck
2007-01-24 19:36:47 · answer #6 · answered by Bootsy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you! I wish you luck. If he was a bad as you say he was, then you are definitely better off without him. You don't want him doing drugs around your child anyway.
Have a happy life. I know you will find a good man to love and who will love you and your child.
2007-01-24 19:36:47 · answer #7 · answered by Deborah 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good for you so Good Luck and have a great new life with your son Take care
2007-01-24 20:07:59 · answer #8 · answered by Bernie c 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's better being on your own with your child than being with the wrong man, even if he is the father. Good luck - and don't look back. The past is another country.
2007-01-24 19:36:47 · answer #9 · answered by dorothy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you, hun! I know it will be hard, but at least you have your self respect. As I said last time, he just isn't a good role model for your child. Now screw him for all the money he has! ;-)
Best of luck, I hope it's a bit sunny for you in the morning.
2007-01-24 20:20:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋