Why is she ignoring me now?
I emailed a girl for almost 9 months while overseas at war
and then when I returned home about a month or so ago and I didn't call her right away. I went and visited a friend of mine out of state, and she found out about it via myspace (female friend) and now she will not return my calls. What can I do to get her to at least meet up with me? Why is she doing this?
2007-01-24 11:13:58 · 11 answers · asked by julia k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OK, chics and the why didn’t you even call for Christ sake, thing.
I don’t understand it, I don’t think it’s understandable.
But it will go down, it will happen every time, as sure as the sun will rise tomorrow morning.
At this point you are basically ****ed, there is no excuse, what are you gonna say, well Jimmy called and I went to see him and we were hanging out and I just never gave you a second thought...
Try this, talk to her mother, sister, best friend tell them what a complete and total moron you’ve been, ask them, what can I do?
That will start the ball rolling, after that, well your in the military, you know how to kiss ***...
2007-01-24 11:48:51 · answer #1 · answered by edoubleyou 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I don't think she has a right to be mad. I mean, you did try to call her. But, maybe she thought you were really serious and fell for you...hard. So shes probably hurt from over-thinking your feelings for her and trying to figure out what to do. Why don't you try sending her another E-mail?? And if that doesn't work, show up at her house or find SOME way to do this in person...well...whatever you do, good luck!!!!
2007-01-24 11:21:44 · answer #2 · answered by R*A*N*D*O*M* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's obviously immature and not deserving of your attention. Just stop calling her and see what happens. I bet she'll call or get in touch with you somehow in a few weeks. If not, try again. This girl is playing games. Don't fall for it.
2007-01-24 11:18:59 · answer #3 · answered by CyndiDrum 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just send her an email telling her that you are sorry she is upset but that you would like to make it up to her and take her out for dinner. If she still won't respond I don't know what else would help.
2007-01-24 11:20:44 · answer #4 · answered by zyllee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she feels you ignored her.
you should of talked to her first then seen your friend.
she found out from someone else you visited a friend first.
you should of at least told her you were visiting your friend,...
yes you messed up but if she cares about you she will get over it.
2007-01-24 11:20:43 · answer #5 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she's jealous and mad that you didnt see her or call her first, instead you called your friend, so now she probably thinks she doesnt mean anything more to you than a friend....
fix it..
2007-01-24 11:19:41 · answer #6 · answered by sadie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Word of advice girls are just complicated
2007-01-24 11:21:14 · answer #7 · answered by Smiley17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cos apparently ur friend was more important than her.keep calling.
2007-01-24 11:20:48 · answer #8 · answered by lilac. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ofcourse she thinks u were cheating on her
u should some how let her know that u werent (if u really werent)
2007-01-24 11:19:18 · answer #9 · answered by ehhh. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think u lost her trust... try getiing that back...keep calling and emailing
2007-01-24 11:19:15 · answer #10 · answered by mimie.. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋