2007-01-24 11:10:33 · 7 answers · asked by kschucky1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Work on interacting with more people. Start off slowly by simply saying, "Hi!" to at least 10 people a day. Think of it like jumping off the high dive at your local swimming pool. Just make the "jump" and talk to people. The more people you talk to, the more comfortable you are around them. The more comfortable and at ease you are around people, the more attractive you will be by other people.
Do keep in mind that not everyone is going to be warm and open to your social advances. That's OK. We can't be well liked by all. When you open yourself up and be willing to be more sociable, the more people will flock to you and be willing to be a part of your life.
2007-01-24 11:19:24 · answer #1 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try going to new places and try to force yourself to talk to new people. Like joining a new team, or going to some kind of social event. Build up your confidence slowly and if you come off kind of weird at first lol, it doesn't really matter. You can sort of "practice" on new people you meet that you probably won't ever see again. You'll start getting a little louder and more outgoing, and can talk to people at school, and you'll make loads more friends. It's hard to be shy around a bunch of people you're friends with :) It's also hard to be shy around new people when you've got tons of friends with you. Try practicing at home projecting your voice really loudly, so then when meeting new people you'll probably automatically tone it down to a normal voice, instead of mumbling. Good luck! Remember, it takes a bit of time!
2007-01-24 19:17:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i'm shy too sometimes if i don't know people that well but all you have to do is open up yourself to people and start acting confident even if in that moment u're not becuase after a while u'll feel comfortable with yourself and with others
2007-01-24 19:15:13 · answer #3 · answered by Jenny0305 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Confront whatever you fear. I myself was and still am sometimes a lil shy but to tell you the truth by beign shy you hide who you are and that doesnt get you no where! So cheer up & confront! Good luck
2007-01-24 19:14:55 · answer #4 · answered by elysangel22 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Join small group activities that will help you interact better with others. You won't feel overwhelmed as you would in a large group.
2007-01-24 19:15:24 · answer #5 · answered by Michael K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont be afraid of what people think about you cuz u cant make erryone happy
2007-01-24 19:15:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just be yourself people like confidence.
2007-01-24 19:18:03 · answer #7 · answered by b3lla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋