I've been dating guy for about four months and really like him.. but he's not moving as fast as i would like.. would like a commited relationship.. but not sure if i should wait for him.. How do i bring it up?
2007-01-24 11:06:57 · 16 answers · asked by tre770 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes. who ever said only men can initiate things.
2007-01-25 10:53:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think it would be better for him to make that move, but then again, he needs to know that you feel the same way...so I'd say dont tell him directly , but make sure he knows how you feel about him, seems like you care a lot for him and you love him, make sure he knows that you care for him and you are interested in taking the relationship to the next level!
2007-01-24 11:13:19 · answer #2 · answered by Scorpio Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm this is tricky. Is really hard to talk about this stuff. But it is necessary if what you want is committment. I would just wait until you feel comfortable and then tell him that you would like things to be exclusive between the two of you. If he has a problem with it, then it is better to know now then wait longer and get all attached and find out he doesn't want what you want.
2007-01-24 11:13:38 · answer #3 · answered by zyllee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay to ask anything you want...but if he didn't bring it up, don't expect any miracle answer from him. Guys don't get involved with girls to be in a commitment, you know? If you're not getting any good vibes that he's interested in a "next level", I'd leave and find someone who may be ready.
2007-01-24 11:10:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, if he is seeing only you, he is in a committed relationship already. You say you "really like him" but you don't mention love. I say take it slow, take it for what it is, and if the opportunity presents itself to talk about where the relationship is heading, be sure and take advantage of it. If it is meant to be, it will happen.
2007-01-24 11:16:01 · answer #5 · answered by nurse ratchet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe tell him about "a dream" you had last night where he was doing something interesting to you.
Or maybe ask him what he'd like to have you do to him.
Tell him what you want him to do.
Or just take his hand and guide him. Gently.
But try not to take it personal if he doesn't respond how you want him to. He may just be really nervous.
2007-01-24 11:19:22 · answer #6 · answered by patrick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have been dating for 4 months then ask him if he is willing to go to the next level. you can only tell him it is your wish to, and let him give you his answer, however it turns out remember that he is probably a nice guy and respect his decision
2007-01-24 11:17:33 · answer #7 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure she can ask, that way she will know how serious he wants to get and if its not good enough for her she can move on.
2007-01-24 11:11:50 · answer #8 · answered by Got Curves? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes as long as he isn't shy.
don't push your self at him he may not like that.
take it slow.ask him how he really feels about the relationship getting stronger.
2007-01-24 11:11:21 · answer #9 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OVER DINNER IN A ROMANTIC restaurant
2007-01-24 11:12:20 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋